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Is she even my bestfriend anymore...?
Okay, so my bestfriend since Kindergarten is way different than how she used to.. This year has just been hard for me.. lots of stuff happened, but my bestfriend just ignores me now.. ever since she got a boyfriend in september it is all she talks about.. so whenever we hangout she always wants to go to the park to see her boyfriend.. so we do. Whenever we go she just completely ignores me.. like I am just sitting there by myself.. she is one of the "popular" kids i am not. But lately I have been just trying to distant our friendship.. it is working.. cause she doesnt even really talk to me cause ahe is just too into jer boyfriend.. and plus I dont even think I am her bestfriend either.. am I just overreacting? She is making me depressed... and all this stuff.. My other bestfriend who was also her bestfriend like we were all really close Is starting not to like her that much either.. Cause I dont think she doesnt talk to her anymore I am still really close to my other bestfriend. But is the other girl just too obsessed with her boyfriend? Or am I just makubg a big deal?
Please no bad comments..
5 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
No your Not making a big deal out of this SHE IS making a huge deal out of her "boyfriend" which probably wont be there a couple of months from now and shes forgeting about you which is stupid and not cool and No I Dont think shes your Bestfriend anymore because a real bestfriend would still try to make you happy and talk about stuff you like and NOT just her and her bf...sometimes you just got to cut some females out of your friend circle and get some new ones
GOOD LUCK!
- Anonymous9 years ago
No you're not making a big deal. I think you should talk to her about it. Like foreal if you have to get loud, get loud. Make her know that you're serious you've known her your whole life and she's had that boyfriend for a few months. That's really messed up. She's suppose to stick by your side no matter what . And if they break up and she wants to be your best friend again don't fall for it. If she was really your friend she'd be with you thru everything and wouldn't treat you differently when her boyfriend is around.. She really needs to get her shot together because if it was the other way around I know she would be upset.. I hope I helped good luck!! Xoxo
Source(s): Real talk - Anonymous9 years ago
My girlfriend is in a situation just like this. She loves me so much that she kind of drifted away from her two bestfriends. You aren't overreacting. Your bestfriend is just too obsessed with her boyfriend but she probably still considers you her best friend, she just isn't showing it. Don't be depressed or anything, just ask her to hang out without her boyfriend because you want some girl time or something. And talk to her about it if she agrees to hang out with you.
- ?Lv 49 years ago
It's okay. You guys are just getting distant. Is this her first boyfriend? She might not know how to react to it yet. Wait a little longer. Maybe talk to her about it. But definitly try and be with new people, too. Are you in middle school? First year? That's when friendships grow apart. Don't worry.
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- 9 years ago
Oh dear. u needa worry. Its fairly common but sad. make some new friends. Wanna be my friend?
