What do you think about abstinence?

I think if you love someone enough, then sex is the ultimate way to express that...Maybe he doesn't love you enough :/?

Wouldnt it bother you if he has had sex with dozens of women you dont know?

I think its great. It prevents you from getting any std's and you 're never worried about being pregnant. If you miss your period, then you miss your period. And you can laugh at all your friends who get knocked up at 16.

Even though I waited with my wife. Most people dont. And out of the group of people i knew who wanted to wait like I did. Out of maybe 27, only me and 1 other person actually did. And these were hardcore people, really into waiting.

So odds are, that he will change his mind. And he isnt a bad person if he does. Just make sure he's doing for the right reasons. I hope this isnt the only way he will make you happy. Bc then thats not fair to him. Just bc you've already had sex doesnt mean his first time shouldnt be speacial.

If you dont believe in it then find someone with similar view points. I dont agree with it. Why would i settle before you try the goods, you know what i mean. Sex is a big part of life too. Its not some nasty thing if your doing it with someone you love. Just be safe (ie condoms the pill)