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I feel depressed and lonely serious answers only please?
I am seeing this guy that I met a month ago. I am really picky about who I like but he was really nice and different from other guys I have been with. However, I went to his house once and he wanted to have sex. I almost did but in the middle of it I started crying and told him to get it over with. He said I shouldn't do it if thats how I feel and he hugged me and feel so much better about myself and said I was a beautiful and nice girl. He said we should start seeing each other every week now and whenever I feel sad we can hang out and he would even take me out the next week. But he never calls me or texts me and expects me to go see him. I have very low self-esteem especially when it comes to guys because I have been hurt so many times before and treated very badly by guys, I feel like guys don't respect me at all. Sometimes I feel like I need a guy to make me feel good about myself. I am not sure if he is even serious about me or not but I like him a lot and I feel really lonely and it makes me feel better to be with a guy. Please give me some advice on what I should do.
4 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
We all want to be loved.
He sounded respectful to your wishes as far as not wanting to have sex with him. It also sounds like maybe all he was looking for was a sexual relationship. Don't worry about this, some people are just looking for different things in relationships.
The right guy for you is the guy who shares what you want, and one who respects your choices.
You are more likely to be depressed about the fact that this man was not the above opposed to being depressed about him not calling you.
It is disappointing being hopeful about something(anything,everything) only to learn that all is not what you hope it is. Just hang in there and understand tomorrow is a new day!
- 9 years ago
You've been through a lot; there are plenty of guys out there who are selfish, cruel, and sometimes heartless.
There are also loads of guys like the one you've found who are caring and kind!
Talk to him, YOU be the one to text or call him if you have to. Let him know you miss him and you want to be with him more often. If he said what he meant that night, then he'll be delighted to hang out with you!
We all sometimes feel like we need a someone to hold and comfort us at our low points, especially if it's a girlfriend or boyfriend. The fact that you've been treated terribly is awful.
Communicate with him; tell him how you feel. Make him feel special too! Love comes back when you take care of each other.
I hope the best for you two!
Good Luck!
Source(s): Spent a few years feeling the same way. - 9 years ago
Here is a little secret. Everyone gets rejected and rejects people wanting relationships. It sounds like you have done both, so Id consider you pretty normal. Try socialization with guys outside relationships, it will increase your self-esteem around them.
For your situation: If the guy doesnt call that is saying something...it seems like he thinks you are little more than friends but isnt interested in dating you. There is no point in ruining a decent relationship you both have, just dont have unrealistic expectations.
- Anonymous9 years ago
He wanted in your pants. Run.
