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I want to have sex but im anxioiuis?

This guy I know and I have been talking or a whilee and we've been flirting and stuff for the past couple months, its weird we are on and off cause he's my brothers' friend but we've done 2nd and 3rd base but we haven't kissed yet? Which is weird? for me at least. He was supposed to come over so we can have sex. And i don't want to have sex without kissing. I'm not a virgin but I'm still kind of nervous to have sex with him. Well I always kind of am I've never had sex in the day. I'm not nervous of the act/pain but more of myself that I'm not going to be good enough, or not going to look good enough...what to do what to do?

Update:

lol spelled anxious wrong oops

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't feel bad about yourself. You are who you are, and if you change who you are, you aren't YOU. Just be yourself, because that's why he likes you. Be brave. It'll be fun, 100% guareented. :D

  • 9 years ago

    Don't do it. For one, you just met this guy, and chances are, you have sex and the relationship will fade. Too - you don't want to get pregnant or an STD. Three, jumping into bed with someone is not thinking. You don't have to have sex to have a good time. You can wait. You may be talking to this guy for a while and having those butterflies in your stomach, but that's not love. Just think before you do anything.

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    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Anxiety is always an issue, It passes.

  • 9 years ago

    wait till you feel 100% positive this is what u want to do.

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