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Girls: How should I approach this?

Ok, I'm a sophomore in high school and I have a crush on a girl in 8th grade. I used to go to the same middle school as her and knew her kinda well, but I haven't really seen her in a while. I want to be friends with her and get to know her more. Occasionally, I'll see her around the neighborhood but she's always with all her friends. Should I just bite the bullet and go up to her or should I take a more indirect way (facebook?)? Also, what should I say if I just go up to her? Basically: If you were in her position, what would be the best way for me to approach this.

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  • 9 years ago

    ask her to hang out over facebook and wave and smile at her when she walks by. see how she reacts?

  • 9 years ago

    Well I think you should not go over the internet. I would think your a dog goin round hittin on every cute girl you see. The best thing would be just go up to her if you do it in front of her friends it will show your not afraid of showing your feelings around other people. Not to mention she will feel so special and talk bout it with her girls when you leave. Don't be afraid, you got to get her before someone else does

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  • 9 years ago

    just walk up to her sometime when you see her in the neighborhood, act like it's no big deal, just say 'hey, long time no talk, hows it going? lemmy grab your # before i go?" most girls'll be really flattered that you liked them enough to come up to them, even more so if you dont mind that she's with friends, it's hard to explain why... anyway, regarding the friends: before you start talking to her be sure and say something like "hello ladies" or whatever your comfortable with to just generally address her friends but make sure you keep the attention after that on her alone. Good luck <3

  • 9 years ago

    approach her when she's with her friends, be direct.

    it shows confidence in a man, and if you can establish a friendly relationship with her friends too, then you're in the clear. show her friends what kind of guy you are, bc their opinion about you matters too.

    plus... you've kind of got this already.

    she would go out with you in a heartbeat anyways bc you're in highschool.

    younger girls think that's "so hott."

    trust me... be direct, be confident, and she'll say yes because you're in high school and middle school girls think that's "hott."

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