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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

Girls Please help me :( I dunno what she has in her mind :( ?

ok here is a girl whom i saw her in college and as soon as i saw her i just went and said "this black dress suits you" in a railway station ..she never knew who I am at that time.. I was a total stranger to her .. later On her Birthday I gave her a greeting card to wish her on her B'day ..she returned it back with a note that "thanks for wishing".. after that we had some eye contacts for few months later i gave her a friend request in FB and we were chatting little while and then got her number after 2 years from our first meet .. so its like this we wont talk that much but she knews it very well that i am crazy about her

Again a months before her birthday came and i was the first one to wish her .. and that day evening i just traveled 30kms just to see her and give a present for her birthday . i gave an greeting card where all her fb pics put together and some wishes here and ther and a bit costly wallet ..( one day she told that she missed her wallet somewhere while travelling..so i thought that would be good gift) and then that day we had dinner together in a hotel .. now the problem is this after that meeting she suddenly stopped to text me she sstarted to ignore me she never text even if i text her .. a recently i said this to her , i was talking with her so rudely and she asked my whether I am angry on her ? i said " yeah am damn angry on you you should either tell me that you are busy or you are not in a position to text why do you simply dont reply to the text?" she replied "sorry" on the same day when i told this after 20 exchanges ..she abruptly stopped the conversation and didnt text back anything :( .. now my problem is i really want to know why she is doing like this ?? ! she wants my attention towards her ? 2.she really dont like me after seeing me that night?? or its something else ??? pls help me i am literally crying

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  • 9 years ago
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    Girls hate guys who get upset with them. Also, you claimed she wasn't talking to you... then claimed in a conversation you said " yeah am damn angry on you you should either tell me that you are busy or you are not in a position to text why do you simply dont reply to the text?" she replied "sorry" on the same day when i told this after 20 exchanges" That means the two of you are talking at least sometimes. Honestly, apologize, then leave the ball in her court. Don't ever flip out about someone not texting you if you're trying to win their heart, it will make them think you're crazy and make them want to talk to you less. Just be the awesome guy she met years ago, joke with her, say hi, but don't get angry with her, that will just push her away.

  • 9 years ago

    Sorry to say this but shes probably thinking your a stalker or to clingy. Slow down. If you want her , try and make her jealous and turn ur attention to another girl she knows. dont be so stalkerish.

    stop trying to talk to her. she might start thinking, why isnt he trying anymore. she might get curious and talk to you, if not then shes jsut not interested. she might have wanted a fling or something. to be honest,. she doesnt sound liek the right girl for you. she just wants attention ,

    find a girl who wants you.

  • 9 years ago

    Aww that's so sweet. I know it's hard but stop talking to her and see if she cares enough to text u to see what ur up to. Good luck:)

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