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This guy i like barely knows i exist...guys please help?
So me and this really hot boy judge kunce are on the track team,and i like him. But i dont even think he knows i exist i mean at our one track meet he came up behind me and basically gave me a hug and said guess who, after i turned around he kept his arms around me until i sorta moved. But everytime i say hi now he just looks at me. hes really popular and so am i but we just have our different groups. Guys please help i dont know how to talk to him. Oh and the other day at track he started humping the track and asked me if i could stand in for the track and everyone sarted looking at me...help
9 Answers
- Anonymous9 years ago
I'm NOT telling u to be a slut. But try to peak his interests. Start texting him,be kinda flirty, go to a movie and then make out with him, it's not like he's going to reject you, no offense high school guys will go for almost anyone, no matter how popular
Source(s): Guidance counselor - Anonymous9 years ago
I don't have to be a guy to help. Please stop limiting your help to men only. A man's actions will always let you know how he feels. So don't get in the habit of basing his interests on how he looks at you or giving him a hug. Michael Jordan gave me a hug before, that didn't mean that he was interested in me. Get real.
By your own admission, he is popular, which means that you are not the only girl that likes him. He also may have heard that you like him and gave you a hug because he knows that is what you want. Being nice to girls and flirting with them a little helps a guy to be more popular - since you don't seem to know that. Slow down and stop being so hot and bothered.
Don't worry about talking to him. If he is interested in you, he will approach you and make some conversation with you. And? So what if everyone is looking at you? why are you concerned with what others think or who is looking?
You need to work on your self esteem and I repeat, stop being so concerned about who's looking and what someone thinks. You don't sound very confident with high self esteem. Focus on loving yourself and building up your self esteem so that you will have the confidence to talk to anyone. Just because you like him, doesn't mean that he likes you.
This is how so many girls get in trouble. He is not emotional; you are. Men are able to compartmentalize while you sit around like a 5 year old daydreaming and fantasizing. Listen to yourself. By your own admission, he doesn't even know you exist. Even you have intuition that is letting you know that he doesn't have the same interest in you that you do in him, thus, you will end up making a fool out of yourself and throwing yourself at him.
Most likely, you have already told a few friends about your crush and you know how folks gossip. You don't need him to know that you are losing your mind over him. That doesn't cause a man to like a woman more, it only makes it easy for him to take advantage of you. He's somewhere telling his boys how many girls are crazy over him and how much you like him.
You sound as if you are drooling. Have some decency and self respect. And what is it that you want guys to tell you that a woman like me can't tell you when I've already been dealt the game? I know how guys think and I know them like the back of my hand.
Men get an A+ in looking after their own self interest. One thing I have observed from living, if a man is interested in a woman, he makes sure she knows it and he makes it a point to get with her. He will find a way to be with her, ask her out, spend time with her etc. If he is not exhibiting these behaviors with you, that means he is not interested.
So what is it that you want guys to help you with? You sound delusional as if you actually believe that a woman or girl can make a man like them. PITIFUL! He either likes you or he doesn't. You may not even be his type, but here you are about to lose your mind over a guy that may not even be worth it. Get your head out of your panties and think.
Use common sense before you get played and focus on learning how to love yourself and wait until the feeling is mutual. Everytime you say hi, he just looks at you? do you see how pitiful and desperate you sound? what kind of self respecting lady would keep speaking to a chump who doesn't even consider her enough to speak back to her. yeah, you do know how to talk to him.
LEAVE HIM ALONE UNTIL HE STEPS TO YOU LIKE A MAN AND ACTS AS IF HE IS AS INTERESTED IN YOU AS YOU ARE IN HIM. Until he does that, get over it and stop being foolish before you end up getting your feelings and body hurt.
Source(s): Life and writing about men - Anonymous9 years ago
he already knows you exist, just talk to him. ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. What someone said earlier though is true, he DOES sound like a perv... i'd watch out for him pushing you into things you dont wanna do.
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- 9 years ago
man..........................first off why you move if you like him....ugh....!!!! you never do that. that was him trying to fit the grove and break the ice. he knows who you are but you played him by moving. i wouldn't blame him for not talking to you. but imma tell you what you need to do. ok he's a dude who like you secretly show up and ****.....so you have to write him a letter first don't just approach him out of no where it will make him nervous. just because he's popular doesn't mean the cant break his coo...so write him a letter lol.......
yea nikkas like letters..!!!!!
- 9 years ago
STAND OUT! get in more activities and get your name well known. dont join nerdy activities. thats - swag pts
Source(s): me last year - 9 years ago
ok well your best bet would be to act like you like him in front of him dont be shy
- 9 years ago
Barley knows you exist....bs. bubba he's attracted to you. just hang with him. become friends...then see where it goes for you
Source(s): expirioence