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Ex boyfriend harassing my girlfriend at work?

Hi Everyone,

My girlfriend dated this guy at her work for awhile, she broke up with him and she eventually got together with me. The guy can't seem to let it go and move on with his life. Everyday he comes up and tries to talk to her and basically tries to make her feel uncomfortable and spreads rumors about her at work it, and she tells him to stop or ignores him everyday. He is accomplishing his goals and is making a hostile work environment for her. She tells me this and expects me to do nothing and it frustrates me a lot. I want to cheese grate this guys face on the ***-fault I'm a huge man and I can't put up with this. What are somethings I can do or my girlfriend to do to stop this behavior before it gets way out of hand for me and I end up going to jail.

Thanks,

Spencer

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    She needs to complain to her manager, or go up the chain of command until someone takes her seriously. That's all she can do unless she wants to change her hours or find another job. You aren't going to make the situation any better by interfering. Threatening him will just make him the victim and give him even more leverage. All she needs from you is support, she otherwise has to deal with this herself.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    no rely what, dont combat him. you haven't any longer any reason to bypass right down to his point, its unlikely to teach you any greater perfect of a individual by utilising doing that. basically do this if it gets truly undesirable to the element which you will no longer administration it. i could watch my back for now, in simple terms be sure ur attentive to ur environment once you adult men are out, and your lady chum to observe heavily whilst shes on my own. tell your people approximately it so as that they could be attentive to too. If it gets truly uncontrolled, i could advise getting a restraining order, because of the fact needless to say this guy is an entire wackjob.

  • Sam
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Im sorry to say this but it wont help for you to get involved.i was in exactlg the same situation and my boyfriend getting involved made it a million times worse.tell her to report this guy,tell everyone how he is acting so they know what to expect.get her boss to have him stay away from her

  • 9 years ago

    Two words my friend hit-man haha just kidding, if she doesn't want you to hurt him then you might have to consider her getting a new job. Give him a call and tell him to stop before someone gets hurt.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Your girlfriend can report her ex for harassment at her boss

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