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Is he blind or does he really want to avoid a relationship?

So many people have already come up to me asking "why aren't you guys together yet" or "are you guys ever going to go out" and it seems like he's oblivious to that and i dont know why!

he's my best friend in the whole world and i really really wouldn't want to ruin that but maybe if he just gave it a shot it wouldn't turn out so bad.

i'm so confused and i dont know whether to forget about him or to talk to him about it because i have liked him for so long

i'm 14 and he is too

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well hes friend zoned right now. He might not want to ruin a friendship by confessing any feelings either.

    You have nothing to lose, just bring up the subject. "have you ever thought about us being more then friends?" see his reply, if hes excited by the question, go ahead tell him how you feel and that your willing to give it a shot. If hes stand offish reply with "yeah its weird everyone seems to think were a couple" and laugh. Easy as that. You either go further, or have your friendship remain exactly the same.

    Good luck girl!

  • 9 years ago

    Tell those people to mind their own business. Just continue with being friends as you were, you both seem more comfortable with that right?

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Hmmmm..how can I put this....

    A guy isn't going to commit if he doesn't want to. No matter how many people think you guys should be together. Sad, but true.

  • Laredo
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Jeez! You are only 14 years old; why so desperate? You're still just a little kid.

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