Time will tell, will it make him realize?

The saying if you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it was meant to be ?

I have been dating someone for 8months we are together but not together. When he desides he wants to do certain things i dont like he is single.

He has a daughter with his ex gf, he gets her on weekend but sometimes he goes there to give child support on a 2week basis and he stays has supper with them plays wtv i dont like that i dont see why he cant just take his daughter out to the mall or supper or his house wtv there is no reason for him to stay there! It is disrespectfull and very hurtfull to me.....

Think about it! When his ex has a man in her life you think she will allow him to be over there chilling? NO because when your with someone that is no longer acceptable! So i told him things needed to change because i copuldnt deal with this no more he needs tho choose what he wants in his life and make that choice clear if its not me that i wished him the best and set eachtoher free but he told me there is no one else in his life blah blah...and he said he will change in time things take time i understand that but my heart cant take it anymore he needs to deside if its a life with me he wants cause than he needs to make changes tio have a normal realationship with me. What do you think we should do? im so tired of talking and saying things it doesnt change i just have to let go see what happenss ??? what do you guys think