What Do i do to get rid of this attraction ?

you will be surely be alright after some years so leave it

Hi friend!

I think if u change your school so that u wouldn't see her anymore it helps a lot s nd gradually the feelings fade away.

Just seeing her everyday lights up the sorrow and pain more and more and it's suffering.do it if it's possible for you.

Don't loose your faith in having a good future and a girl who will love you ,maybe it takes sometime but it is worth waiting for.try to do some healthy activities like sporting,reading good books,(not books which are about romance! Life is much more than just love and relationship),painting even if u would be bad at it,gardening spending more quality time with your family,saying everyday prayers and any other poditive thing that can distract your mind and avoiding seeing her even if it seems hard.always ask God to heal your heart and put a girl in your future who would love you forever and he will do that for you if u insist on it.

If you're thinking of swearing off women due to heartache, and dissapointment, I would like to tell you to not give up! There's the right girl out there for you, and when you meet her, you'll know. If you want to be a priest or something, you have to make the decision. Once you are a priest, your body belongs to God. Not even you anymore. You can still be attracted to the opposite/same sex, but make a honest decision to not act on those feelings.

As you said you are good enough in studies, so use that thing more efficiently. You are humbly requested not to insist that girl to like you either ways. Try to shape yourself also thats what seems a major hurdle in her attention for you. Be polite and gentle in very of your manners while talking to her. Keep yourself silent in this regard for few days and if she really realizes that you love her then she will surely be yours one day.... And one final advice dont forget that a good carrer is more important than this attraction.

best wishes good luck

Try to stay away of the girl. Matlab asa kr k uske sath kvi tra mulaqat na ho paye. Studies k sath sath vocational ku6 kr so that u hamesha pdhai n kaan m bz reh.... try to spend tym wd ppl nt alone nd forcefully uski yaad dimag m aana prevent kr.. Ku6 din asa krte reh. Ek din u wl b freed frm such things.

don't think about her try to stay away from her.. u r just attracted twrds her..

c maybe if u reduce weight woh tujhe like krna shuru kar de ..but den its not love,looks do matter but agr woh sach mai tjhe pasand krti toh woh ye sab nhi dkhti..it will be good if u concentrate on ur studies n have confidence us lakdi ki wajh se ur studies should not suffer.

HOPE IT HELPS!

U cant force to love someone so leave her,this is your crucial time,dont waste,otherwise u lose both study and gal,

dear,

My philosophy is this:

::: You should marry the one who loves you and not the one whom you love:::

And I am not sure that She will love you even if you thin down.

So think once again.

Best wishes.

Dude, just try to ignore her. think of something like.... mother theresa?

eat some khakra and chill..