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I need some relationship help?

Hey guys, I've posted a question or two before about trust and now I'm back again for some more help. My girlfriend recently took up softball and she does it alot, and I work alot, so it causes us to not spend alot of time together. I always feel like everything else is more important than me and I hate the feeling. Any advice?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    We all have our passions and we shouldn't put them aside because we're dating. As an athlete and a girl I would recommend that you try and go to one of her games or maybe bring her a snack to practice. She will feel very supported and it will only help your relationship.

  • 9 years ago

    Time shouldn't be a really big issue. But you must cherish any time you get to see, touch, feel your partner. Just kick that feeling out of your head.

    That's how families live nowadays, seeing each other barely in the morning and barely in the evening, having a weekend to spend together (some don't have it).

  • 9 years ago

    You just have to get over that. Both of you have a life. You're not going to be able to spend as much time together as you used to. It's happened to a lot of people, but you just gotta push through. Her soccer season isn't going to last forever. Maybe you too should talk things out, and put a date out when you guys decide to spend time together.

  • Just ask her if she can have a day off one saturday or any day and just spend the day together.

    go for a picnic, make the food together, just spend time with each other. it's good to have that every noe and again and it will make you both realise how much you missed each other.

    and dont fret, it's easy to get caught up in work or anything, just make sure you both realise you need some couple time too!

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  • 9 years ago

    You need to have more hobbies going on in your life so take an interest in other things. It's not all about girlfriends and boyfriends. They're a great addition when you are already happy in your life. But if you make your life ALL about her she will feel suffocated and it's not healthy for either of you.

    Take care ;)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    That's a crappy feeling, I know, I'm living it now. Do not get clingy!!! Or whine to her. That will push her away. Just do your thing as hard as it is. If u continue to feel like you an option to her and not a priority, you have to tough it up and get out of it.

  • 9 years ago

    If you start thinking like that you'll get dumped

    She has a life too

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