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i know its a common question ..but why cant i atleast get a boyfriend?
Yeah Yeah blah blah those who wait will get the best bf ..I've never had one I've never been even kissed!!!)): idk because im Black (not Really mixed) and guys here like white girls ..I just don't know .. im funny. ,super outgoing and open minded but i guess its nt enough ...I've read all those quotes about people who never had bfs ..I think its because we're poor and I really have many clothes :/ my friends. Sister is 12 lost her virginity and had wayy more bfs than me.... .__. I.feel embarrassed I dont Really want you guys to tell me why I've never had one because I Always get the same answers just tell me where can a 16 1/2 work at?! So I can get money and get clothes!
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- ?Lv 59 years agoFavorite Answer
LOL, join the club. I am just like you. And , I am older too, because I am 17. But the thing is I am not going to lie to you and say that there is going to be a great guy waiting for you at the end of the day, because I don't control a single thing.
Only you can make your dreams into a reality and actually TALK TO GUYS. Maybe even get hints or ideas from your sister. I mean she has bf's so ask her if she knows any guys your age. And oh yes, it would also probobly help if you tell your sister who you like so she can help you get closer to him since she has some sort of experience in the field of romance.
Admit it, we are both two people who isn't destined to be in love at the moment. I mean think about it, the universe works in different ways and we have probably bad luck with guys because we were with the wrong place in the right time or the right place but in the wrong time. So our special guy never got to meet us. And no one can control the universe, BUT IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU WILL END UP ALONE FOREVER, it just means your going to have to independent for the moment.
A 16 1/2 can work at the mall, the movies, tutor young kids (if your smart and love kids), life guards at the beach, or camp leader or counselor. There are so many opportunities! Plus you don't need to have different clothes to be pretty and get guys because MONEY DOESN'T SOLVE EVERYTHING, all you need is hope, love and happiness. I guarantee, there is a decent guy out there, its just a matter of time before you meet him. And MAKE SURE YOU KEEP U R EYES OPEN!
Also, remember to get a boyfriend you have to do some talking to and you have to smile at them and go out of your way to talk to certain guys. I only say this because back when I was a young girl (like in grade 2) I saw so many guys ask out girls & flirt with them and everything. BUT now a days, its different, girls are becoming MORE competitive and asking guys out or flirting with them. All I am saying is that if you want someone, you need to be more out there.
PEACE :)