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What do I do about my boyfriend?

I feel like i'm being used, we've been going out for just about 9 months, my best friend is going out with his best friend as well, and he seems so good to her, he leaves his friends to meet her etc, and they rarely argue.

But with me and my boyfriend, I'm an argumentative person, so it doesn't help, but I always feel like he's using me or that I'm not good enough for him, he lashes out at me if he has a problem and he heard me crying on the phone because of it and he just continued to shout. And this week he's seen his friends more than me, he's seen me for 30 mins this past week, and he's seen his friends pretty much every day outside of school, and this happens on a frequent basis, and I just feel like a toy that he drops and changes when he's bored of me.

Is he using me? Or does he just want some space, I'm really confused and I don't get it, please help guys, points for the most helpful! x

Update:

guys, don't get me wrong, he's lovely when he want's to be!!

Update 2:

guys, don't get me wrong, he's lovely when he want's to be!!

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    divorce him xd

  • Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Seems like you're both confused from one another. He probably needs his space, but if he only sees you like 30 minutes a week, then he's taking too much space, and should dedicate some time for you. You said you're an argumentative person.. which this leads to arguments even if they weren't necessary.

    So I think you both should sit down and have a talk with each other, and put some guides to make your relationship work.

  • 9 years ago

    @Ramon C, She can be whatever age she wants. It doesn't change a thing. If she loved this guy that's all that matters. Times have changed, society as we know it has developed massively. Also, you don't know this person, so cut the depressing life stories. There are people who are mature for there age and can cope with life. If I was her, I'd give this relationship some time and if it is still bad, then figure out what to do between both of them.

    Source(s): Life
  • Murzy
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    no one wants to be with an argumentative person. like the song goes, " i wanna lover that won't drive me crazy". being an an argumentative person, will get you no where in a relationship

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  • 9 years ago

    keep your legs shut. If he likes you he will treat you good. If he's using you he will split.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    BREAK UP WITH THE STUPID BUM DONT BE SCARED

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