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Bf seems to not want sex?

we been together for 6 months.. everything about the relationship is perfect, we never fight but he doesn't feel like having sex. we have it maybe once every two Weeks.. I'm younger then him by ten years and I love him but I don't get it.. he asked me if he should see a doc... ik a relationship shouldn't be based on sex but I would like to feel wanted, not jus a text saying it... what should be done?

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  • Zunden
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    If that's not enough for you and he's having trouble wanting it more often, he can have his testosterone levels checked. Sometimes, if they're low enough, it can affect sex drive. Be aware though, that it's quite natural for people's sex drive to slowly drop off a bit over time. This is largely because as people move into climacteric (both men and women do this), it becomes harder to become aroused. You can work around it, but it is a fact of life. If you're with a significantly older man, you're going to have to accept that he's going to be starting that sooner than you are.

  • 9 years ago

    Some would consider "once every few weeks" as wonderful. He should see a doc, might be something serious unrelated to sex.

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