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My boyfriend watches porn?

Tonight I found a porn sites on my boyfriends computer. I was fierce right away because he had told me before he doesn't watch porn, along with that the night before we just talked about lying. Thats a whole different story but long story short, he said he wasnt hiding anything else. That is when tonight i found those porn sites. I know guys watch porn, its a given. but i don't understand why my boyfriend does. We have sex once/twice daily.... I feel emabarrassed and not good enough. I have this sickening feeling as if he cheated on me. He says he does it maybe once or twice a week. But one of the days he was masturbating to porn, we had sex that day, then i wanted to do it again, and he just wasnt getting into it, he pleasured me and boredly kissed me, and he got no bboner from that. Am I boring, not good enough..etc.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    no its nothing to do with you, funny to say,... I have heard from countless women who think that they must not be good enough, other-wise why would he be looking at other women on porn. some women know that they are beautiful, attractive and some know that they are stunning, and so they are really puzzled. something else is going on entirely. the reason why most men watch porn has little to do with them looking for an attractive girl that interests them. no it is because they are being severely affected, mentally impacted by the tricks they use in various sexual presentations to give them a mental high, which they experience as a sexual high. First, its helpful for you to recognize when you come across potentially phenomenal information, so you don't overlook empowering knowledge. You are lucky to get this info. Many people are suffering silently, so mention the true Nature of the Problem (below) & the Website (mentioned after my answer, includes numerous Youtube videos to be watched in order). I used to be intensely into watching porn, and I overcame it. If I can, anyone can overcome it. Nature of Problem: Manipulation of the mind through trickery: Various sexual presentations expose the viewer to numerous impactful mind altering manipulations. The viewer having little to no chance to defend themselves is virtually powerless against these intrusions. The viewer is delivered a powerful mental high, which is experienced as a powerful sexual high. The book a) Reveals the Manipulations, b) Explaining How the Mind Works, 3) Details How to Nullify the Tricks & Free the Mind from these cunning deceptions.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    If he wants to watch it then there is nothing you can do. You have to work on your own feelings of insignificance.

    I agree that it can be damaging to a relationship and you will feel like you dont measure up but some guys are really into it and your partner sounds like he is one of them.

    I personally dont know if my husband watches porn, we make our own which he likes to watch but he could be on sites too for all I know.

    Your partner wont stop watching porn, he clearly gets off on it and has not reached that maturity level yet where having real life sex is infinitely better than watching others do it.

    If he knows how you feel and he still watches this porn then he has no regard for your feelings and will do as he wishes regardless of how it makes you feel as a woman.

    He wont stop, so you have to weigh up whether its worth dumping him because of this or if you can turn a blind eye and let him get on with things.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    A guy watching porn is not ideal. But I believe it's pretty common.

    One of the problems with it (in my view) is that it can make regular sex with a girlfriend seem boring. It's all about conditioning. It's like, seeing all these things that these porn actresses do, things that a girlfriend can't or won't do, it ups the ante and makes regular sex seem boring by comparison (which is not a good thing).

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You are good enough he have a siccness

    But dont get me wrong men watches porn but he got issues with porn if I was in his shoes I will enjoy u all day eeveryday love you kiss you and not ignor you I would enjoy havin sex one or two times everyday many man dont have that he should be lucky or just leave him and let him be happy with his porn u should get at me trust ull be happy and wont regret it

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Some men do like to watch porn, nothing wrong with it. ( I am a woman by the way )

    He hides because you nag him about it.

    Let the man live.

  • 9 years ago

    maybe he just uses you for sex and nothing else

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    good news is he's not gay.

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