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Does anyone else think these new stocking/suspender style tights look too trashy for a wife to wear out?
I posted up a question a couple of weeks ago regarding my concerns about how sexy my wife was dressed when going out with her friends. She went out in a black leotard, black skin tight hot pants and these black stocking/suspender look tights with high heels. The thing is I thought she looked really trashy so got jealous that she was going out like that without me. I told her I thought she looked trashy and should change, she said no way and went out anyway with her friends. The next night we went to a party together that I was invited to by some work mates, so my wife decided to wear the same outfit because she felt bad about how she spoke to me and didn't want me to think she was dressing this way just for attention from other men.
The thing is, I genuinely felt she looked trashy in these black stocking/suspender look tights and hot pants, especially with high heels! During the evening at the party I started feeling a little embarrassed at how so many guys were looking at her. Then when I was getting drinks at the bar I over heard these 3 girls chatting about how they thought the woman in the black hot pants and suspender look tights looked like a trashy tart or cheap hooker, they were even laughing about it. One of them said how she thought these style tights were really trashy and should only be worn by women who want men to think they are available for sex or just want men to look at them and that they would never be seen in them.
During the last week or so my wife has been out to a works night out with her work friends, a night out to the cinema and meal afterwards with her girl friends and a night out with me at a mutual friends birthday party at our local football club. On each occasion she has worn these stocking/suspender look tights, with hotpants, a short black minidress and on the last occasion an black wet-look miniskirt and vest top. I can't speak for the 2 occasions she was out without me, but the night at our friends party at the football club she was getting eyed up by most guys all evening and I really felt uneasy about being with her. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife getting attention to normal degrees, its flattering and she is extremely attractive and still in her late 20's, but I genuinely think she looks really trashy in these new style tights that she wears now. A few of my friends bumped into her when she was out with her work friends and they told me how hot and seriously sexy she looked and that I must be mad to let my wife go out dressed like that! That made me feel annoyed too. I have suggested she wear normal tights or go bare legged as its summer now and good weather, but she says she really likes wearing them.
So, does anyone else think these suspender look style tights are too trashy or am I just being silly about how my wife looks and just let her wear them and say nothing?
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- ?Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
This is small but big. She is craving attention. This is not healthy as she is willing to sell the family down the drain.
Friends night out for girls are never healthy. Her dressing like this is not healthy. He not even caring what you said not healthy.
If you have a child get counseling. If you don't then put your foot down for change.
After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.
If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead. You can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. Them can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.
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- 9 years ago
Honestly you should ask yourself is this what attracted me to my wife in the first place. Many times men and women during dating and corting are attracted to someone based on how they look. Don't be upset if she has always been dressing like this and because she married you think she should go out in a garbage bag. Second, If she just started dressing this way, think about some of the factors women think about. Did she recently have a baby, maybe she wants to feel sexy again, gain/lose weight, are you ignoring her she just might need some attention. I don't think the tights are trashy, you have to wear them a certain way to not look trashy. Maybe go shopping with her and tell her how beautiful she is in other items. Very subtle and not abrasive or she will buy all the trashy stuff in the store. Good Luck!
Source(s): me - Anonymous5 years ago
No, I wear tights similar to those under modest-ish skirts, it looks fine. It's sexy, sure, but not too revealing, and definitely not trashy. Keep the rest of your outfit conservative if you want to stay safe.
- 9 years ago
When she is wearing it like thAt it does seem like it looks trashy im19 and I'm married I do wear leggings bit all the time but I wear them with a nice Blouse and some accessories and NO heels it just depends on what she is wearing them with
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- 5 years ago
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- 9 years ago
I don't really know what to suggest considering you have already tried telling her how you feel and she just keeps wearing them regardless. Yeah your right though, I know the sort you mean and they do look cheap and tacky