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How do you defend your girlfriend?

I am pretty non defensive personally. And I'll admittedly avoid confrontation. It's pretty much who I am, and how I've always approached situations. Somewhat timidly. But she gets offended more easily than I do, and wants me to "defend" her more often than I feel is actually needed. But I do realize that my logic is fallacious... I need to "defend" her as much as she needs me to defend her. I just don't know how to do it. The way I approach people who have offended me personally is very straightforward or I just ignore it/get over it, She needs a less obvious approach.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    I've dated girls like that. They're annoying. I'd just drop her. They usually turn out to be whackjobs anyways

  • 9 years ago

    You're being toyed with, my man.

    There is only one type of girl who is like that, and she's more trouble than any ten girls put together. You're going out with a drama addict, and she's not going to change. She gets easily offended because she likes drama, and she asks you to defend her because she wants MORE drama. And if there's no drama going on, she'll probably create some out of thin air. You've probably seen her do that a few times, haven't you?

    I dated a few of those myself, and it's exhausting. I married my wife because she isn't like that at all, and that was actually a deciding factor!

    Girls these days can take care of themselves, and the normal ones actually get offended when their significant others are over-protective. Normal women don't like violent / aggresive behaviour in us, and the ones that do are the ones who could give a headache to an asprin.

    Sorry to be the one to tell you all this, really I am. But you know I'm right.

  • 9 years ago

    If she really cared about she wouldnt get in a mess where you get your *** beat. A real girlfriend will understand that her bf is not physically strong and will accept mainly because of he really is. Whatever you do dont talk about it just play it cool and tell her to be easy going and this will make your relationship more healthier.

  • 9 years ago

    Women want MEN not some pussy who will not defend them.

    you know what you need to do? Grow some balls. I don't really know how you can defend her, it depends on the situation, but real men just take charge. Women want to feel protected with their men.... You are obviously lacking so much my friend. She is going to leave you for a real man soon.

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  • 9 years ago

    if somebody insults her then first tell them to back off and be sure to have no fear, look tuff and if that dont work than fight them and beleive me even if you get you a** kicked she will still be very greatful for you for trying and thats really all that matters hope that helped

    Source(s): me
  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Save your life by dumping her. A girlfriend will destroy your logic.

    Source(s): My life.
  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    man up or she may think you rather be with one. i support gays

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