Best friend chose boyfriend over me?

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So me and my best friend are really close we get in fights a lot but I've never been as mad as this one. She met this guy at my school less then a month ago and they started going out. I was always really nice I her boyfriend t school he would always talk about her nonstop so I tried to give him advice about her. Lately I've been feeling like I've been blown off for her boyfriend. And to add to all of this I got in a fight with him te other day for ignoring me and it got bad. Today I told her i was tired off it and like I was being blown off for him and she said that wasn't her problem (even though she said that if any of her boyfriends were mean to me she would always stand up and be there for me) she said I was making her choose and I didn't even say that. Then she started replying with cool and ive never been so hurt by her. Idk what to do and I never thought she would choose her boyfriend of a monh over her best friend of years.

CrashingWaves · Accepted Answer

Just give her space for awhile and maybe one day she will realize what she is doing and how much it is hurting you and she will apologize. But until then just try to hang out with other people and if she ever talks to you or needs advice be there for her but just don't talk to her for awhile unless she comes to you. I know it's hard but it will get easier, you will make lots of new friends as time goes on. And I'm sure she will still be your friend you both just need some space from each other for awhile I think. Good luck.

Calista · Answer

Honestly I think people should choose Bros before boys. (Their friends before their Boyfriend)
 Because you can have friends forever, but you cant always keep a boy.

And when she said it wasn't her problem. That would be when I would start not talking to her at all. Girls can get mean, and for her to do that to you is mean! D: ....I dont know what advice to give you! :(

 This happend to me before and I didnt talk to her, when she asked why, I told her. and then I said I didnt want to hang out with someone if they ignored me..... and we havent talked since.. because she came the popular girl who dates a new guy every week..... I became the one barley anyone knows :3 hehe

Betty · Answer

Just leave her alone cuz when they end up breakin up or something she'll be back telling u that shes sorry for blowin u off for the guy

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