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What do you do when you meet the perfect person - and all of a sudden it seems like love was never there?

I was a top contributor for singles and dating, and it's annoying when you find a post that is 8 pages long.

Anyhow, I met this girl online, just looking at who was out there after I left a bad relationship. :/

This girl and I talked for a week and then exchanged phone numbers. It became extremely amazing and she showed that she truly liked me in every way she could. IT surpassed the happiness point where my last relationship was, and I thought I'd never meet someone better. But I did.

She asked me to hangout, and I didn't want to because I wanted to go there with a lot of money - I'm not sure why. It's only an hour away.

She said a girl can only dream to hold hands and be with the most amazing guy on the planet. She had said that a lot of times. A bunch of times telling me she's going to go to sleep the happiest girl in the world.

AND, she also told her friend what I said, and her friend said she's jealous because she has a good guy (me.)

So, maybe four days ago, she said to her friend on FB that she asked a guy to the movies, but he was being a mega dick. I didn't tell her I saw it. I didn't want to hear about it. Then, we stopped talking every 5 minutes like we used to. :-/ We used to talk nonstop.

I told her it was bothering me, and she kept going and going about how a relationship won't work out if we hide things...

I also ask her if she still likes me, because I'm unsure if she does since this happened. She said she doesn't like that, either.

So basically, she said I'll never know if she likes me if I am continuously asking if she likes me, and also accusing her of liking someone else.

We don't talk as often, a few text messages each day. We don't share pictures, either.

We are both 19. She is an hour away from me, which isn't a problem. She also goes to college two hours from here, but she said I'm amazing and I make her so happy, that she is willing to work at that as well.

So, how can I restore this relationship? If I tell her I'm sorry, OR talk about this anymore, she will call it childish and it will hurt this relationship even more.

Update:

Also, I ask her if we should hangout then, and then resolve conflicts but she never replied to that.

She also never replied when I sent her the picture of what she said to her friend about the movies. She said "you don't know anything we were talking about that night. if you ask them(her two friends) what I talked about, they would say you."

But she never said anything else about that issue either.

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  • moblet
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Are you not being too clingy and dependent? It doesn't sound like you're being confident enough to allow her the space to feel attraction to you, and it certainly sounds like she would feel attraction to you if she had the space to do so.

  • freer
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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