Confused confused confused confused?

Don´t be confused, just be open and honest. If you have seen him with his ex then ask him about it. Sometimes things are not the way they seem. If they were smooching then ask him that it seems that they are still involved and you prefer not to be involved in this case.

It is really important to have a clean slate from the start or else there will be endless suffering. If you are in love with him and he with you then you must try to communicate openly with love and respect. It will work even if it is hard. If he has a hard time talking about his feelings then gently talk to him about yours and plainly ask him how he feels.

Assumptions are often more apt to be wrong than right. Be transparent and honest and sincere and you will reap the same in return if he´s the person for you. Be ready also to let go of him if he is not honest. Love is trust. If there is no trust from the beginning then a relationship is doomed.

He is obviously not your best friend or a friend at all.

Yes, it is confusing that is why you need someone who doesn't frustrate you. You need someone who comes to you and only you. Yes, it will hurt, for a while. Find a hobby. That will give you the social stuff you need and get you away from this guy. Take up exercising or reading. Anything that is constructive and not with passive aggressive man.

And if he tells you, he doesn't think of you sexual tell him, "Thank goodness, neither do I, bye." You don't even have to tell him anything. Just step away. If he comes after you be surprised and tell that you thought his ex should be satisfaction enough. Don't wait for him to explain or con you back to him. Leave and stay gone. If you are somehow in close proximity then change your schedule or times you do things. If he continues to try to reunite then firmly tell him you have traveled on. Tell him you are busy and show him by having something else to do.

dont rush into a relationship with him. if u guys are friends keep it so for a while. find out about the ex and him first and then give him time to get over her. and dont put all ur hope in this cause its 50/50 he might like u more than a friend

Lil bit of a control freak you have on your hands there, if he's got someone he neglects to tell you about all the while wanting to know everything about your exploits. He obviously wants more with you, but I'd be careful about going there, bc he doesn't quite know what all he wants and it might be more than you can deal with...

What's confusing about this? He's still seeing the "ex" he told you he broke up with... he's a liar. He wants to play you AND her, but act all jealous if you talk to other guys? Take a deep breath and say "He's a loser-scum" and DUMP HIM.

he still loves her dont trust him