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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

Confused confused confused confused?

im in love with this guy who i met for a year now and we are best friends we hang out alot talk about everything .. He use to have an ex before we met by 2 months which he told me about and as he said they dont talk anymore..and he recently started to act so jelous asking about every guy i talk to,and he goes crazy everytime he finds my phone waiting espicially at night..i found out that he has been talking to his ex again and he added her back on facebook ..when i asked him if they r back he said no ..although i knew recently that he has been meeting with her and lying to me when i ask him where he is ..a common friend of us asked him if he loves me and he just kept silience and changed the conversation ..my feelings r so confused pleade help me

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  • 9 years ago
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    Don't be confused Pink Lady, have a full conversation with him and explain how re building bridges with his ex is making you feel especially as he doesn't like you re connecting or indeed connecting with ANY Man, for him to link up with somebocy he's already had a relationship with makes you feel a little uncertain about his feelings for you, then ask him directly does he love you and see his reaction for yourself, maybe it's time to get out of this relationship before he hurts you, no man should control you or make you feel bad about yourself, you are a princess, you deserve a man that treats you like his number one, is proud to have you as his woman and wants other men to know you are his lady, if this isn't the guy, time to leave him because i promise you there is a man out ther for you, it' will take bravery to leave him, but if he's not treating you right, respect your very self and leave him, it will hurt, but you will heal and when you close this door, God will open another one for you, don't stay in a relationship you are not happy in and don't stay in a bad relationship and call it love, because when you find LOVE or rather when LOVE finds you, you will realise that you were wasting your time with a jealous, controlling man that couldn't even answer straight away that it's love that he has for you in your heart.

  • 9 years ago

    Dear Friend ,

    I think if you will not tell him about your friends and with whom you talk and

    some time you have told him lie then it may be he has something wrong in your phone

    that is why he is doing all this , better you should ask from him that why he is doing

    that if his ex has come again in his life and she is only frind then he shluld share you

    you will not deny to have friendship with her, but he will tell a lie then he is not

    doing the right thing and say what will be if you will start to do that and you both are

    in love , so love to each other , listen dear one thing Love comes you near each other

    but the mutual understanding makes your relationship strong so better with love

    have understating if you want to be happy that is the key of happiness,

  • 9 years ago

    I think the whole jealous thing is a bit over the top, hes not allowing you and freedom, and then you've got the problem with his ex, if hes lying to you then he obviously doesn't love you, if he keeps silent when friends ask him about it he either doesn't but doesn't want to say it or he just feels awkward about it and would rather not talk about it, if i was you i would sit him down and talk to him.

  • 9 years ago

    Have an open communication with him. Tell him you feel confused. and let see what is his reaction. At the same time give him and yourself some time. Time will show you everything! It is a very difficult situation, I know what you mean. Be patient and see how he treats.

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    9 years ago

    If he is telling lies, then he is not for you.

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