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Do married couples have more sex if they wait until after they get married?

I've seen all these stories about how people hardly ever have sex once they're maried, etc etc... but my fiance and I are getting married in 9 weeks and we're both still virgins, because we both want to wait for marriage... but if married couples hardly ever have sex, would that mean that she and I would almost never have any sex? Or another thing I heard said that married couples don't have much sex cuz they had sex before they got married. So would it be the same either way, or does sex before marriage factor into how much sex you have after marriage?

Update:

Also I'm a little confused because my fiance hardly ever is in the mood to make out now, much less do anything sexual... but she claims that after we get married she wants to have sex like 2 or 3 times a day but I'm not sure how to completely believe her, because if she's hardly ever in the mood now, why would that change when we get married?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Honey, I'm sure you guys will have plenty of fun getting to know each other.

    Don't worry so much what people say happens in marriages and work on making your own marriage something special.

    Always be kind to each other, never go to bed on an argument, and, most of all keep, things alive by flirting every day. Good luck.

    **Stress will do that to women. She's thinking about the wedding. Buy her a good massage at a beauty salon.

  • 9 years ago

    First let me admit i only read the first 2 sentences of your question and decided to answer.. hehe!!!! Good for you on waiting.... i guess.... i personally have been married 2 years and have a very active sex life.... i think as u mature (im not like 90 btw only 29) you branch out and experience different things... as long as u are still attracted to one another. I personally feel that there needs to be a sexual connection to make any relationship work.. The relationships before him seemed to died down after a year... You need that spark!!! Its what makes it last... I think... ask me again in 20 years.. lol. Anyways.. That is not true. we have been together 7 years, been married for 2 and still have sex at least 3 times a week =) good luck and congrats

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    you recognize there's a reason marriage became into invented. Why do you think of Aids exists? Its because of fact of such questioning. yet I wont end you in case you prefer to bypass forward. i think in waiting because of fact in case you wait you will get wiser and smarter and discover the perfect guy. eg, in case you probably did it with one guy you theory you enjoyed then you definately discover out he's cheating on you with possibly your roommate or maximum suitable pal? does not you sense like crap? heavily in case you found out and you probably did now stay wide awake with him then effective you're able to cry yet a minimum of it does not sense so, so undesirable! particular it may nonetheless ensue if marriage yet this is your guy's fault he's an person he ought to understand self administration and you need to too. yet as I mentioned you're able to do what you pick it is your life

  • 9 years ago

    not going to read the novel you wrote

    no,i don't see how a newly married couple could have more sex,wheather they had sex before or not

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  • 9 years ago

    For the first few weeks, then it is like every other couple on this earth.

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