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can someone help me understand what im feeling? please?
I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half and even a couple days ago i was mad crazy about him. i felt all of these sparks and i felt like i was really falling for him. i missed him so much when i couldnt see him. i just wanted to be the reason he smiled. I thought my feelings were super genuine believe me.
suddenly over the course of yesterday and today it feels like all of the spark is gone. kissing him feels less about how much i like him and more about just being kissed.
it almost feels like kissing my brother...
and i realized how i feel like i have other priorities that are more important than being in a relationship with him right now..
how does this happen?
how can one day i feel like im falling in love and the next feel almost nothing for someone?
like i still care about him and love him as a friend for sure.
but its like all of the romance and spark has just... disappeared.
How does this happen?
Is this normal?
He and I have a very open and honest relationship and i've already talked to him about how im feeling and we agreed to take a break for a little bit and see if anything changes.
i just feel like something is wrong with me
hes so wonderful
why cant i feel like i used to?
4 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
its very normal to lose spark if you dont keep things new and exciting.it chould be that you need to add some spice in you love life . or that sparks gone becaues the love gone it chould be he was great for a while but your not made for each other it happens alot he just not what your looking for
- Anonymous9 years ago
Instead of concentrating on WHY just concentrate on the feeling you have. IT IS NOT IMPORTANT why you feel the way that you do. ALOT of women feel a certain way and allk of their feelings and hunches tell them something and they just decide to ignore it just because they beleive or they would like to beleive that they will ultimately feel differently or they are more in love with being in love then they actually ARE in love. An intelligent MATURE woman knows that trying to fool your feelings into feeling something different is not the right thing to do as these feelings will NOT happen and the relationship will then fail.
I suiggest stay as friends only and dont dwell too much as to the WHY things happened the way that they did- it could have been that once you get your catch ( him or another guy) that you than switch off because you have aready gotten the "prize" or for whatever reason.. it doesnt really matteer! what m,atters now is thbat you do the CORRECT things BY YOU ( and him) and dont get into anything that you dont feel ready for especially a flase or not loving relationship !
Good Luck !
- 9 years ago
Maybe because it was a new relationship and you felt something different with him you tryed to make it feel like there was a spark but there really wasn't, I say you two should just stay friends.
- 9 years ago
Hey listen ....its a normal feeling...there can be a feeling of insecurity...
Just give yourself time and think about it...spend more time with him...
An yeah just try to feel are you feeling romantic with him or not??
Try to relax and think whats going on.....
And if you dont get any solution be friends...after all he wil always be there as a friend also...
Take care and be happy.... :))
