should i call her first?

so i was talking to this girl for couple of monts, we saw each other only 2 times in real person

the first date went really good 2nd also but after the 2nd date she told me she had no time to me see me because of school FOR MONTHS . so we got into some arguements she said to me that were finished and that i should forget her and that she doesnt feel anything for me,(i told her i love her)

after 3 weeks without talking she called me up and we started talking again,

but after a week we had the exact same arguement because i wanted to see her, so we stopped talking to each other again this time she said she was 100% sure she dindt like me,

but after 2 weeks she called me in the middle of the night and woke me up ,

i was really mad so i said to her that she has to stop playing games (she was calling private but i knew it was her)

she told me that she wanted to call someone else but accidentely called me haha

we started talking again i asked her when i would see her she said she would think about it

so i said im finished with this bullshit and told her to find someone else to play mindgames with,

but i really miss her and miss the conversations we had

its 5 weeks now we havent had any contact should i call her? ore should i wait for her to call me ??

yesterday i replyd to a friends status on fb and she replyd also like 2 min later, maybe she wants my attention ?