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Would a virgin girl marry a non virgin guy?
I prefer if Christians answer.
A guy had sex with 2 girls before when he was a teenager, but now is a on-fire for Christ Christian who knows he has been forgiven by God. He wants to remain pure until marriage now.
Would a virgin girl that wants to stay pure until her wedding night marry this guy?
I know she would obviously prefer a virgin, but would it be a total NO to marry a non virgin?
And when is the right time to tell a girl that your not a virgin? I would think you wouldn't want it to be to early or to late.
Thanks
10 Answers
- HérissonLv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
I think she can forgive you. You make such efforts to be forgiven and you must be a good person. If the person you want to marry loves you for who you are now, I don't think many would reject you for who you were. Most probably they will prefer a virgin guy, but if God forgave you, a human should too.
I think a right time to tell would be sometime after you are sure you two love each other and it could become more. Tell her the full story and make sure she understand that you are sorry and you are committed to wait to be married. Don't ask her to marry you before you tell her, it's just right that you give her all the cards before you do.
But of course if she asks... you can not lie to her. You'll have to be honest.
- MichaelLv 59 years ago
Well I am a Christian and a guy, and I would prefer to marry a virgin Christian girl, I would have to think about it, if she was a party non-virgin then probably not but if it was like a one-time thing then maybe
- 9 years ago
I would say to tell her later on in the relationship and be sure and tell her the full story about how this person is truely sorry about it and that he is forgiven and then ask the non virgin lady if she would forgive you as well. It would make a difference to a lady,but it doesn't mean it's a complete no just make sure you are completely honest with her.
- 9 years ago
Well, as Christians we believe what's done before you were saved is "covered by the blood" since Christ looks past it, so do we. So, if she goes by that standard, I believe she would be able to look past it if she really loves him. If the guy is already thinking about marriage I believe now would be a good time to tell her. Girls like to know what they're getting into.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
If she is a true christian then she will not condemn him for his past. If god has forgiven him then she should not even give it a second thought. I suggest marriage counselling with a pastor then tell her then or before you propose and really talk about it.
- 9 years ago
Just tell her straight up that you want to be honest and i see no reason for her not to