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Why is my ex boyfriend acting jealous?
My boyfriend of 1 year and 7 months dumped me because he lost his feelings (and we are going to separate colleges in a month).
I tried so hard to get back with him but he always rejected me.
Though, he acts lovey dovey and he even said "I love you" the other time we met.
He got SUPER jealous and mad when I drunkenly kissed my guy friend (he hit him and hugged me).
Because he was mad, he danced with random girls at a club and TOLD me about it (probably to hurt me).
He even said "Why would you makeout with him..."
I also caught him staring at me from far away at a bar (sitting alone).
I'm SO confused! He dumped me and he's acting all weird...what is up with him?
*he always says "i dont know" and he is confused*
14 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
He may think that his feelings are gone but that maynot be the case. he could just not want to see you with someone else. But It sound like to me after a year and seven months he has grown to have deeper feelings than he mite even be aware of. You'll be able to tell by the things that he does. And remember.....Guysdo stupid things sometimes.....and breaking up with you mite have just been one of them
- Anonymous9 years ago
This is so weird because I broke up with my gf of 1 year 7 months and i have been acting the same way...we are going to separate colleges but I let her go because it was too hard. I didnt want to let her go though, so i became jealous when she started moving on. But i had to deal with it and let her be free and happy, so ur ex should do the same and stop stepping on ur feelings
- 9 years ago
Don't worry about him, he still has feelings for you. He probably freaked out about how well your relationship is going & ended it. He's just saying he doesn't know is because he's scared & is trying to hide behind that. Move on from him. And he had no right to hit your guy friend, because you guys are broken up. Tell him you would make out with who ever you want because you guys are no longer together! Its simple as that. Just move on & find someone worthy of your time, because all that was just childish of him.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
If he wanted to be with you he would be with you. He just likes the ego boost of a girl still lusting after him, and the way of having a girlfriend without actually having a girlfriend. You kissing your friend was a signal that you just might grow some lady balls and move one to someone who ISN'T "confused" all the time.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Lol @ he doesn't know and confused.
Ok... We're jackasses like that. Plain and simple. He wants to keep you as a "back up". He's letting you go because he wants to be free for college... He may not have feelings for you anymore but he's still possessive of you and doesn't want you going for other guys.
Simply put... That's his way of telling you... "I want the space to meet other girls and be free for college but I want you around in case I get horny and no one else wants to date me".
It was nothing that you did... He knows what he wants... And it doesn't look like you being happy is nowhere near what he wants.
You deserve better...
- 9 years ago
He obviously doesn't know what he wants. It is comforting to know that (even if you don't want to be with someone) that they are there for you to 'resort' to if you needed to. He probably doesn't want to be with you but doesn't have anyone else- he likes the thought that you are hanging on to him. If he looses that then he is alone out there. No more comfort. Not fair for you. Move on and forget about him. Women deserve men that really want you and are willing to be a man about it.
- 9 years ago
He probably didn't know he had feelings for you still until he saw u with another guy. My ex acted exactly like this, I never got back with him but still to this day he has threatened to beat up every bf ive ever had. If you get him to open up about his feelings then u can both talk about it.
Source(s): A very jealous ex - Anonymous9 years ago
i'd say leave it and forget it - if you are going to different colleges in the fall you will heal a lot faster, and mind games don't help anyone. -- treat it as if you are fully done and dont put any thought into what he says