I just called my ex boyfriend and he's coming over. ?

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He asked me to marry him. He's 45 , Im 21. We had sex, everybody said we shouldnt be married, so i called it off. He got mad and stormed off. I called him he came over , i cried to him. Then he left. I just called him and he said he would come over and talk. I love him, and I know what Im gonna say. He's gonna come and Im gonna tell him why i called it off, and see if were still together. What else should i say? I dont think Thats gonna save us.

? · Answer

Well you called off the wedding, right? Not the relationship, so just make sure you let him know that YOU aren't ready for that yet. Marriage is a big deal and if you start hearing story's about him being older and he wants to start a family with you and so on then you need to let him know you are NOT ready for that yet.

Of course friends and family are going to tell you not to marry him and keep in mind that they do have your best interest, but don't let them make the final decisions for you. Your doing a good job communicating with him also!!
As far as your conversation goes with your ex boyfriend just be honest and speak from your heart

Laurence · Answer

he's 45 and you're 21.that's quite a big difference..also how come you slept with such an aged man.you're a girl and he's a man.if you marry what status you'll have in his family and also in yours.what about your friends?
just leave him..plenty fish around!

? · Answer

Just tell the truth but not all TRUE, hide those which are not nice to hear. I have to say, J, you are really and probably a JERK! Please girl, know the meaning of true love, ain't all loves are true!

Anonymous · Answer

This guy "J" is an idiot ^ haha he is probably like 7 or 8 years old

Anonymous · Answer

Can I have you too when he's done? Been horny all week and I love a well-used squishy mitt in her mid-40s.

Miguel · Answer

no bueno

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