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Got in huge fight with girlfriend?
Hi,
I got in a huge fight with my girlfriend yesterday. We have been together for a year and she says she is tired of my behavior and it annoys her so much that she gets really angry and wants to start a fight with me and break up with me. The behavior that she hates is almost an OCD thing for me, like i have to click my car lock a couple time to make sure its locked and check my lights to see if they are off. Also whenever I buy something with my atm card, when I get to the car I make sure I have all my cards with me and sometimes it takes a min. I tell her she shouldn't worry about it its my problem and you getting angry about it doesn't help anything, she says this behavior makes me stupid and an idiot. This is all that happens that cause our huge break up fights she says how annoyed she is and how stupid I am I'm calm at first and I try to resolve it peacefully but eventually all these comments get to me and I get angry to and just leave or we have a yelling match. Is she in the right is this so annoying that it should cause I huge fight, it does not make sense to me at all please enlighten me.
Thank you
4 Answers
- 9 years ago
What the heck... Honestly i wouldn't have a problem with it It's actually pretty smart of you to do that. You'll never loose a card and thats a good thing! I'd get irritated if you lost a card. I think she's being immature and i'm guessing she doesn't have a lot of patience. I wouldn't put up with that if i were you. She either accepts ALL of you or she doesn't get any of it
Source(s): Good luck - Anonymous9 years ago
Her behavior makes her stupid and an intolerant witch. Try these out on her next time she starts with the insults over something that have nothing to do with her.
"Do you enjoy insulting me?"
"Does purposefully hurting my feelings make you feel good?"
"Why are you purposefully sabotaging our relationship with your hurtful words?"
etc. Don't yell. Ask why she is purposefully being a hurtful person and remain dead calm why you ask. If she gets angry while you are being calm, "What is there to be angry about? I'm the one being insulted and ridiculed by someone who us supposed to care about me."
etc.
- 9 years ago
no leave her. she's a *****! it's not your fault you have OCD! IT'S A DISORDER! she either needs to get used to it or you shouldnt be with her.
