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Got in huge fight with girlfriend?
Hi,
I got in a huge fight with my girlfriend yesterday. We have been together for a year and she says she is tired of my behavior and it annoys her so much that she gets really angry and wants to start a fight with me and break up with me. The behavior that she hates is almost an OCD thing for me, like i have to click my car lock a couple time to make sure its locked and check my lights to see if they are off. Also whenever I buy something with my atm card, when I get to the car I make sure I have all my cards with me and sometimes it takes a min. I tell her she shouldn't worry about it its my problem and you getting angry about it doesn't help anything, she says this behavior makes me stupid and an idiot. This is all that happens that cause our huge break up fights she says how annoyed she is and how stupid I am I'm calm at first and I try to resolve it peacefully but eventually all these comments get to me and I get angry to and just leave or we have a yelling match. Is she in the right is this so annoying that it should cause I huge fight, it does not make sense to me at all please enlighten me.
Thank you
3 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
I wouldn't say your behaviour is completely normal (not everyone does that). However, it's not absurd or weird. If she cannot accept this behaviour, something is obviously wrong with HER. Not with you.
- 9 years ago
Your "OCD" behavior is logical....you're simply keeping track of your things and taking extra care to make sure your car won't get stolen or run out of battery and that you won't have identity theft or a stolen credit card. It seems like your girlfriend isn't just tired of your "behavior" she's tired of you as a whole and is looking for a reason to degrade you and yell at you so she won't feel bad if she breaks up with you. I'm sure she would be a lot more furious if your car stalled or was stolen or if your credit card was lost and you had to cancel after someone picked it up and charged thousands of dollars. I agree with the other answer, dump her before she dumps you because she is being a coward and a b****.
- 9 years ago
Your girlfriend should accept all your imperfections. Dump her, she's being a *****
