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Is this normal for a sex buddy to act like this?

Well apparently this guy is starting to make me fall for him by his recent actions but I don't want to if he does not feel the same way. So I am pretty much going with the flow of things here. So like in the beginning when I first met him which was the day before leap year we did our thing once, a couple days later we argued and it was over. What was the argument? All I did was text him if he was in my area so we can do it and he said no then I said okay then he added to let me know that he has other females I'm not the only only one he's doing then I said I never asked you all that and I lied to him and told him I have other guys as well I don't need you. Until a month later, April, he found me on facebook and we continued our sexual encounters. Now he made it clear that we were just f buddies in and I had no problem with that, I already knew. F buddy does mean no string attached right? So I was talking to another guy, the day after I met up with him, I gave this new guy an oral no intercourse, but in my soft heart i couldn't handle having two f buddies so i dropped the new guy 2 days later, and stuck with him. In May he found out about the new guy that I had gave oral to from someone and in my mind I'm thinking why does it matter I thought we were just f buddies but i told him when the event with the new guy took place and I told him ever since he's the only guy that i have been doing. Then he said good keep it that way and promise to never lie to me. When I usually text him he usually has boo or bea in the text. After our sexual encounters this month, June, I asked him if he has other sexual partner and he said no he doesn't. This past father's day I told him Happy Father's Day and he said thank you baby. I was shocked by the baby word. So what do you guys think? Should I just ignore this and just continue with going with the flow?

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  • 9 years ago
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    I would tell him you're at a point in your life where you want a relationship and not f buddies. That you understand that's all he wants is that right now, but right now you want more so you want to stop sleeping together for the time being. He's gotten jealous, but it could be a primal thing, not love. Also he may still be seeing other girls but since he told you not to he felt obligated. Just see how he reacts. He may say he wants more, you're assuming he's not based on what he's told you. F buddies relationships always get messy.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Find a new F buddy, hes using you and your better than him. He sounds clingy

  • 9 years ago

    This is too long for me to waste my time to read because you're an idiot. That's what I gather.

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