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? asked in HealthWomen's Health · 9 years ago

IM SO FREAKING NERVOUS!!!?

Ok so my gf told me she wants to do it on Saturday but its gonna be both our first time and I'm really nervous! What do I do or don't do to make sure it all goes well??

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  • 9 years ago

    If either of you are referring to having sex, as "Doing it", you should NOT be having sex.

    But since you're going to anyway, I'll say this:

    1.CONDOMS,CONDOMS,CONDOMS: Hospitals give them out for free regardless of your age. No excuses. If you can't go there, go to a pharmacy, drugstore or local deli. Again, there is no age requirement for condoms so don't be afraid to get them/ask.

    2.Water based lube (yes, lube - just in case)

    3.TAKE YOUR TIME. It's a different feeling for her and you don't want to hurt her. She should let you know how you're doing.

    4. Condoms are your friend :)

    5. Make sure you don't get caught in the process ! That can ruin anyone's first time.

    6.Go with the flow, tell her she's beautiful & *don't forget to cuddle afterwards*. This is something you'll both remember forever. So make sure you really care about each other.

    Be safe !

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    if u really love her than u shouldnt worry to much but if i were u if u want to do it without the awkwardness start of kissing and it will take off from there. dont think just do.

    Source(s): my head and common.knowledge
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