Did she cross the line BIG TIME?

(im a junior, shes a senior, hes a sophomore in college)

The event happened Sunday but you need some background on the entire thing before you make a statement.

I stayed at a friends to hangout and chill and catch up, we have not seen each other in a very long time. She is socially awkward when it comes to talking to boys and how to be cool with it all. But we're both cool people and she and I both model. We're good in the looks department. Basically its not hard for us to hook up with anyone. She told me about a guy she meet a few weeks ago. She mentioned how they met at a club, he got her number, texted her, visited, met her parents and they loved him. He was amazing, they made out a lot. Basically hard core 2nd base but never more. He would call her at night and tell her how he wanted to **** her and eat her out and he'd he do it, so graphic. But yatta yatta i could go on forever. He was a fun guy and very gentlemen like in public but could rock her world if needed, you understand? Me, having never met the guy but hearing all about him was very into him! Only a few close friends of mine know that me and my best friend which is a guy hooked up a few times. Other than him im with girls. She is one of my friends that knows this. He called her that night and was drunk and wanted her to come over and see her. The next Day, Sunday, is when the crossing of lines happened.

We go to eat lunch at this place, we pass his house on the way. She is like I should text him and be like hey we just passed your house. (Seriously? I told you shes socially awkward. I feel like shes 13 sometimes.) But once we get there she does and hes like Really? where ya going? She tells him where we are and he says he wants to come meet us. ( did i tell you he broke up with his girlfriend 4 days before meeting alyssa, that they were going 2nd base hard until his ex contacted him again and said she wanted to talk, he told alyssa earlier that week that they should kiss anymore and just be friends and now its the weekend and he called alyssa drunk, So this is the first time Alyssa is seeing him since he told her not to kiss him anymore and just be friends after they already did all that stuff? IKR.) So im excited as **** to meet him! He seems awesome and everything, she loves him but thinks he a tool for the way he did her when his ex came back, im pep talking her into just keeping cool and hanging out as friends. Since that's what he wants. So just before he gets in the shop, she leans across the table and tells me, okay you yahoo guys, this one is going to throw you for a loop. She tells me "Don't get mad, but I told him you we're gay so he wouldn't get jealous." WHAT!? Are you kidding me? you didnt even ask me if that was okay?! I would have said no! Why does he need to know? and Its not that i have a problem with him knowing that but i mean, arent i bi? And thats not your business to be telling whoever the hell you want? You know? I was so pisssed! I was like flipping out on the inside but my model side came out and he was coming into the place and i had to put the anger away and met him. BUT! He was like 10xs more interested in me than he was with her and he was like majorly eyeing me the whole time, hes a cool guy. Were friends, but i just didnt appreciate how she did that to me. Paul liked me so much that after that we went to GNC and we saw prometheus later that night and went for frozen yogurt. Like i was just so annoyed that she did that, and i still am. Im seeing her thursday night and ill spend friday with her and friends at Cedar Point. What should i say to her? To get my point across but not to cause any drama over it. To make sure she gets that i wasnt okay with how she did that right before me meeting him and how it better not happen again? Advice please(: She is still my friend guys!