My friend told me she used to be bi, but now hates lesbians and bi women?

It seems that your friend does not want to upset you, so tries to impress you. When you told her you were bisexual and she said she used to be, it must have been to impress you, comfort you, or support you. I mean, if she doesn't like woman/woman relationships, she wouldn't be bisexual. So of course she could be lying about that.

Second, you can confront her at a time when you are both calm and relaxed. Tell her how you honestly feel; perhaps confused, frustrated, and feelings of mistrust. During the conversation, it is very important that you validate (or understand where she is coming from) her feelings by acting interested in what she has to say, telling her you can understand how or why she feels/acts the way she does, and not interrupting her. It is also important, though, that you are honest with her and don't push away thoughts you want to discuss, but are scared to. If you can rationalize and negotiate with her while validating her feelings/actions, everything should go smoothly. Be sure to use an easy, gentle manner when talking to her to avoid an arguments. Try not to use judgments or ineffective language/behavior while talking to her, to ensure a smooth conversation. If she is a true friend, she will accept how you feel and not get enraged by how you feel.

Lastly, it is not weird how she supports gay men but not lesbians. It is wrong how it seems she solely bases it off of porn, though. From what I've hear, gay porn is more romantic, while lesbian porn can be very graphic and gruesome, not to mention having two women making annoying high-pitched sexual noises. Your friend is straight, and therefore may find gay men "okay" and attractive because she is attracted to males. Just think; a lot of men are attracted to two women making out, but if two men were to make out, most men would find it non-masculine and disgusting. Your friend seems to be the same way, but okay with two men instead of two woman.

I really hope I helped! Good luck!(:

Your "friend" Hope sounds like she is unbalanced -- and her behavior sounds a lot like histrionic personality disorder. She was probably one of those twits who pretend to be bisexual to get attention, and then decided to flip over to Good Little Het Girl when she couldn't find another girl to play her games. At the moment, faunching over gay men gives her something to act out about with NO risk of actual sexual involvement.

I think you should drop this chick like a hot brick, because she clearly has no respect or kindness for you as a friend and is only likely to cause you trouble.

I think she needs professional counseling, I really do. Don't take her barbed comments seriously - find other friends.

It seems like she is probably a lesbian and doesn't want to be, so she acts like being lesbian is disgusting and watches gay porn to try and find men attractive, she's I'm permanent denial and the only one she's really hurting is herself

i think that she might be in the closet because if he doesnt like lesbians then she might hiding what shereally feels. im in the closet and no one knows im gay but when family or friends start talking or watching gay stuff on series or movies i get very uncomfortable. dont talk to her yet because she might feel weir around u once u tell her.

I think she could have been lieng or she has a bad expiriance from the past, its wrong to not support only gays and not bi people

Doingit for attention

She is not your friend, crutch maybe, but not a good friend to have.

she may be retarded