An online guy wants to meet me, im not ready, is that normal?

It is completely understandable that you are uncomfortable. i would also feel a little hesitant about it because it seems like he is giving off a creeper type of vibe. He also is rushing things with you. you have a right to feel as if your uncomfortable because you both met off of facebook. My advice would to break things off slowly and to let this guy go. You should like a well put together person and im sure that you can find someone better at your own paste.

This is a bad idea. If he has the full webcam setup etc... then you are probably not the first woman he has tried to meet or that he is talking to. So, what do we know about this guy ? He spends hours on the interwebs talking to women he has never met and trading pictures. Is that potential husband material ? NO. What if you had a relationship with this man ? would he give up his internet hobby - no he wouldn't. He would continue to do what he loves most which is arranging to meet vulnerable women. Most webcam convo's are being capped (recorded) by men. Sorry but your are probably being set up for blackmail, like if you won't have sex with him when you meet he will post your pics online for the whole world to see. I hope you didn't send him anything explicit because he will probably do it anyway. There are places these people go to trade these images along with your personal information, I bet the 'top posters' are very convincing to women at the other end of the cam. Sometimes they use fake webcam software to trick you, unless he can wave at you when you tell him to - then it probably isn't even his image you can see but a looped recording of somebody else that was duped. Stop doing this. Get rid of the webcam and do not meet anyone from the internet. Meet real people instead.

Best thing to do is explain that your very nervous about meeting and your not ready yet he should understand.

Also if possible arrange to meet with a bunch of your friends and his friends and somewhere puplic, you should meet him first before you meet his child. even a coulpe of time so you can really get to know him.

Go with your gut it'll see you right.

Wishing you much luck

Meet whenever you are ready, there is no rush

And if you ever do meet him, bring a friend or two just to be safe

is that normal? um..yeah? Id be pretty dang nervous myself >.> he sounds kinda stubborn from how you described. if I were you I would just explain to him that you do like him, you do enjoy conversations and all that you would like to meet him someday, but your just not ready, and you would like to take it kinda slow because meeting him in person feels to soon for you, if he cant respect that, then I'd tell him its not gonna work out for you, he should respect your feelings

Don't meet him, if he gets all mardy with you and be like I won't love you anymore and stuff like that he would on,y be saying that for you to meet him. Say to him ' I don't wanna meet you yet, if you keep on asking I will delete you, okay?' please, it will work!

He is a weirdo.

delete block, dont meet people online.