Girlfriend Cheated on me Need Some Advice?

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So I have been with my Girlfriend for 5 years now. I have done a lot for her and treated her right. I found out she was cheating on me for a while. We both live at home with our parents. I live accross the city but close enough to drive up everyday to see her. I found out she was cheating on me with her next door neighbour. Her mom, brother and his girlfriend all knew about it. In fact I found out that her mom wants her to date diffrent guys.

She loves me but I feel she is getting board with me and is starting to like the other guy. I did brake up with her and I told her that if her plans or relationship with the other guy dose not work out. I am done and that we would never get back togeather.

She was so devistated. From her reply it sounded like if she dated the other guy and it did not work out she wanted to get back with me. She also wanted to stay friends and I told her I don't think I could do that if she was with someone else. Now we are going to sit and talk about the situation and I do not know what to expect.

I love her and I do not know how to get by with out her. The cheating really hurt me and I really do not like her mother anymore.

Any advice to help would be awesome

Also it is not easy for me to get a girlfriend it could be 3 or 5+ years and I really don't want to be alone again. My girlfriend on the other hand has always had guys wanting to go out with her . We were planning a trip again and it seemed like she was going to wait until after the trip to brake up with me.

So to sum this up she cheated on me and wanted to be friends and for me to be there for her if she needs me, and at some point if her relationship with the other guy dose not work out she would want me back.

Thanks

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

R u kidding me? You're going to sit around waiting to see if your ex girlfriend who dumped you for another guy and her whole family approved of this, may want you back if it doesn't work out with the guy she dumped you for. Hell no! Be strong and go through the pain of missing her. But not sell your self short. Everyone goes through bad break ups. It feels like it's the end of the world. But you have to have some respect for yourself. You will meet someone else but you have to be strong to forget her and move on. She isn't going to change. Some girls are not wife material. Later in life when you are with your wife who loves, respects you and is trust worthy, you'll laugh at the fact that you wanted a hoe back in your life. Dont let her use you anymore. And stop saying it's going to take you years to get another girlfriend, you dont know that. You could meet the ONE next week. Give yourself that chance to be happy.

manasasudheer · Answer

Why you are bothering about a girl who is cheating you. Your love is not worth for her. If she dont accept for break up now we cant give any guarentee that she wont go back to her past friends again. So my best advice is breakup with her and concentrate on your career. Definetly you will find a good girl who really loves you more and she is the worth for your love. Dont go for any trips its waste of your time and may be it gives more pain to you. Forget her and concentrate on your career. Choose a goal and achieve it. Have a bright future. All the best.

hockeyman · Answer

Youre doing the right thing sir. She doesn't respect you, and you should never have to take that **** from someone you care about. This cheating she did and how shes treating you is wrong, dont let her back into your life for a good long while.

♠ Merlin ♠ · Answer

to sum this up

she knows you love her, and will forgive her for cheating
so she did it
she knows you will forgive her again as you are so desperate not be alone
so will use the excuse her mom wants her to date others and you will fall for it

she is bored
she wants out and didnt have the stones to tell you
you dont want to be alone so will forgive her
thats the bottom line

one day you will look back (probably after she has hurt you again) and realize its over and you are worth more

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