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Could this guy be gay and in denial/in the closet?

Something about him just makes me think he's gay or something. He does all the same things that a friend of mine used to do before eventually coming out. He flirts with me and just seems so much like he could be gay/bi apart from his ability to judge when women are hot is much better. Although he sometimes falters, for example if he thinks a woman is hot and I tell him I don't think she is, he usually ends up agreeing with me.

I don't care if he is by the way. I'm just wondering.

Don't tell me to ask him.

Update:

Telling me to ask him wouldn't be helping anyway...

Update 2:

Just to clarify, I don't think he's gay because he doesn't like the same women as me.

I think he could be because, he changes his opinion based on mine. If he thinks a woman is hot and I say she isn't, he agrees and says she isn't hot.

and the flirting is actually FLIRTING. Dirty talk etc.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    yes he could be.

    "Don't tell me to ask him."

    sooo how can i help you?

  • 9 years ago

    Um just because you find a woman hot doesn't mean he has to kwim?

    What you take as flirting could just be him being friendly.

    Maybe give an example of something specific - because based on what you said there isn't enough info to make a guess.

    ADDED: He could be based on the flirting but I think the changing of the opinion is just a form of peer pressure. Maybe talk about someone who came out to you and how supportive you were and see if he says anything? Maybe he is trying to figure it out for himself right now which is why it is so hard for you to tell.

  • raap
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    god senior 12 months and lacking out on promenade like this. To me it would be only ugh i might hate to be a senior in the closet and not bypass with yet another guy to promenade yet while i've got been you i might take a glance around you and notice in case you may come out and not be taken down. For me i did no longer care what people think of of me yet i nonetheless have my mom with me even once I got here out. i might bypass with a guy yet say hes a 2nd cousin or some thing.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    He could be... But there's only one way to find out... But you said you don't want me to tell you to do that, so I guess your only other option is to wait and see if he comes out.

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  • 9 years ago

    Not out is not gay.

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