why didn't my boyfriend get hard?

Gay I guess

I'd guess that he had stage fright being in a public place. I know if my penis was being massaged and making out I don't care where I'm at I'd be up to the challenge ;-)

maybe massaging a little for 5 minutes in public doesn't do it. next time try somewhere a lot more private. take more time. and squeeze a little. or maybe he's just gay.

He was probably just nervous about getting hard in a public place. I say keep trying.

You could try oral, even though it might sound gross to you. Tell him this is as far as you want to go. If your not really up for that kinda thing, try a handjob, and be clear that this is where you draw the line.

You're a bloody liar! I DID get hard when ya rubbed us there! Nah, joking aside, hun, try spitting on your hand, (making it really wet with your saliva), then rubbing THE HEAD of his cock, exclusively, next time round, my sweet, 'cos that's where a bloke's most ticklish, and trust me, hun, that'll feel bloody gorgeous for him, and he WILL get hard from that. In fact, that'll feel so bleedin' nice for him, that he'll be cumming in your hand before ya know what's bloody hit ya!

Maybe his penis is so short he turned gay and he uses you as the girlfriend just to hide his gayness

Maybe he's a heteroromantic asexual like me. Basically, I like girls in an emotional way, but not sexual.

he may have been trying to not get hard, if we dont want to get hard for whatever reason "public place, embaresment" we have the will power to not let it happen. we just really focus on somthing else.

because he sucks...

call me when you are 18... i am 19 so it is cool but yeah