What is the point for a man to to get married?

Your right. You would be a fool if you was a man and got married these days.. but you wont find support among the fools here who did get married. Do you think their pride and egos will let them fess :up. Not likely but im happy your chhosing to stay single and so am i. Give women the husbands they deserve. None.

I'm not in the US, but so far as I can make out, my husband married me for the following reasons:

Because I am attractive and sexy and he wanted a wife who looked good

Because I have a high IQ and he wanted children who were similar

My needs didnt come into it at all, he now has 3 beautiful healthy intelligent children and a 25% share in a business which he bought with MY money, we lived in a house built on my family's land, which I now live in since he cant afford to pay me back the money I gave him. As we can't divorce for 5 years where I live, chances are my parents will die within that time and he will also get half of whatever I inherit from them.

I think he's done pretty well out of me.

Realy? Women give up their bodies to have babies for you men. Then we give up our careers to raise our wonderful babies and build a home for our men. We cook a hot meal when he comes home, makes sure he has clean clothe, and we sacrifice our dreams to pick up dirty socks and toys all day. Then you men go to work and screw a co worker while the wife is at home. I say that women in the USA have the short end of the stick.

If you think that, just don't get married =P No one says you have to, but some men prefer it. I know men who love being married, and I know men who hate being married.

If it's not for you, it's not for you ^.^ but don't discourage people who like it since there *are* benefits, like living longer, being happier, having more frequent sex (contrary to popular belief) and better sex, all of which are backed up by scientific studies.

There are negative things, of course, or, if marriage isn't appealing, don't get married… you don't have to =P

Only if we attempt to marry foreign guys who prefer subservient slaves as wives. My American husband and I have an awesome, active sex life, and after 20 years, we have no intention of divorcing.

You're clearly under educated in American matters of love and marriage. Mind your own business.

Choose the wrong woman and this can happen anywhere in the world

You just need to take time to know who your marrying

Too many do this too soon and then wonder why it goes wrong ?

If you see no point in marriage, then PLEASE, stay by yourself. Don't inflict yourself on any woman unless she's made clear that she isn't interested in a relationship. Nothing wrong with being a cynic, of course. Just be sure to follow through and let her know at the beginning that you have no interest in marriage.

Why are married mens' sex lives so bad? Aren't they all cheats? They are getting laid all the time, which is why they end up divorced, losing their ***-ets. How do you like that stereotype?

A lots of men get marry, because they don't like to be alone

To be committed and spend the rest of your life with someone you love.