What should i do... Muture woman and man answer only..?

Im a full time wife and mother, im 22 years old i have my career as a nurse i put it on hold to raise my daughter because my husband dont trust no one, to watch her. He beg me to put it on hold so i can watch the baby full time i said i will, but part of me was ife. i always work for what i want never had no one taking care of me, just dont want people trowing thing in my face. Well all of a sudden now a year later my husband is doing everything i thought he will do. I have to beg him to give me money, he gave me his old car 2010 mustang he dint pay for the registration so im not driving but he is rolling in a 2012 brand new car has tvs, rims but could pay for the registration. He puts me last to his friend for instant i ask him lets go out all last week he says i have no money ok understandable but wen he got pay today i said we should go out he told me i already made plans for tonight with his boys.. What ive ask this man to go out all last week. i feel not important to him like he is putting me last. He makes good money hes a deputy, so he shouldnt have no excuse. im a good wife to this man i take care of my husband like a wife should, i hear him out all the time. What should i do??