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Agree or Disagree: Homosexuality...?

A homophobe should respect a homosexual as a person; likewise, a homosexual should respect a homophobe as a person. They don't have to like each other's choices (forms of expression).

Agree or disagree?

Homosexuality isn't a choice, nor is homophobia. -for the naive/ignorant individuals

~ I'm neither of the above ~

Update:

Rose,

Being homophobic doesn't necessarily mean you lash out at - or physically attack - homosexuals. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Do you not agree?

Homophobia may be taught, but so is everything else. As a young individual, you can't help what you've been told/taught. You still, however, have the choice to do something with the "knowledge"; you may choose to keep it to yourself, or you might choose for it to manifest as violence.

You have your opinion, I have mine. You are entitled to your beliefs and opinions, as I am mine. A homophobe crosses the line at about the time they actually emotionally, mentally or physically lash out at a person because of their sexuality (whether it's biological or not makes no difference). They have a right to opinion, but I don't believe anyone has the right to attack another person who is simply living their life without interfering with others.

For a person to just feel uncomfortable around a homosexual...

Update 2:

...that's fine (as they can't directly help that, and you know they can't), but as soon as they emotionally, mentally or physically take action, that's when it becomes a problem.

James,

name three foods you like; name three foods you dislike. Now tell me, why do you dislike the latter three foods? Do you CHOOSE to dislike them? Of course not. Likewise, you DON'T choose to dislike/hate anything else (and that includes sexuality). What you do with the dislike/hate, IS a choice. As I said earlier, a homophobe doesn't necessarily interfere with homosexuals' lives.

Update 3:

One more thing, Rose

"And no, you are not born iwth homophobia. It is taught."

I don't get this. :-) Are you conveying that any personal attributes that AREN'T provided since birth, are morally invalid? That will cover most personal attributes then.

Here's another example to help support my argument:

I suffer from hemophobia (fear of blood; yes, it does exist). Do I choose to fear blood? I doubt it. Is it a part of my genetics? Possibly... but then you could argue that so is homophobia.

I haven't always feared blood; it came about a few years ago. As with homophobia, it may have been "taught", not directly by another person, but in the form of past bad experiences.

Update 4:

Gravity,

"...homophobes have the option to educate themselves on the subject and rid themselves of the negative views on LGBT (in the same way a racist or sexist person could)"

This not only implies that all homophobes haven't bothered to educate themselves on homosexuality, but that homophobia can be "cured" through knowledge. I disagree with this. A homophobe could familiarise him/herself with a homosexual(s), yet still fell the same way towards them. No...?

ho·mo·pho·bi·a/ˌhōməˈfōbēə/

Noun:

An extreme and irrational aversion to homosexuality and homosexual people

a·ver·sion/əˈvərZHən/

Noun:

1. A strong dislike or disinclination: "an aversion to exercise".

2. Someone or something that arouses such feelings. -"such feelings" could include discomfort.

I meant to convey that a homophobe could also feel dislike/hatred towards homosexuals, yet convey a civil (or neutral) attitude towards them.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Oddly enough, I agree and disagree somewhat. While civility (within reason) is a good thing, respect may not necessarily be. While you can't quite choose your emotions about others, homophobes have the option to educate themselves on the subject and rid themselves of the negative views on LGBT (in the same way a racist or sexist person could). Homophobia itself has connotations of hate or prejudice, a person just "disagreeing" wouldn't be enough to call them homophobic as is implied in your additional details, so respect would be an unlikely thing for homophobes to give LGBT.

    It seems like you think of both sides as the same or equally valid by saying "Homosexuality isn't a choice, nor is homophobia", though in truth one side has some less than accurate ideas on LGBT, related studies, etc, and (as I have said earlier) usually hatred or prejudice, and the other side are just people with a particular sexuality, with sexuality pretty much being the only thing they have in common with one another. Respect doesn't usually work going either way in those situations and situations similar to that one.

  • .
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    A homophobe is someone who actively discriminates against gay people in my opinion. As people cannot choose whether they are gay or straight, discriminating on this basis is unreasonable and even cruel.

    So, no, I don't think I have any duty to be nice to homophobes if they discriminate against me based on my sexuality. I can accept a religious persons belief that being gay is wrong, and I can respect that but if anyone tries to make my life harder based on something I can't help, I wont respect them.

    I genuinely don't know how you can think that homophobia is not a choice. Hating people who haven't necessarily done anything to anyone is a choice.

  • 9 years ago

    I disagree, because homophobia is a form of discrimination and homosexuality has nothing wrong with it... Plus, I don't think homosexuals should respect a homophobic's choice because that would mean that they would be criticized, and honesty, who in the LGBT world is going to respect that...?

  • 9 years ago

    I'm going to have to disagree beacuse homosexuality is how people are actually born, not what they choose. On the other hand, homophobia is nothing but hate, which definitely makes it a choice. Why should you have to respect someone who shows nothing but hatred towards who you are?

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  • neo109
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    I want to say I agree, but I'd be lying.

    Homophobia is discrimination, and that can't be respected. I know that a lot of homophobes have it engrained into their mind that gay people are a plague on the earth sent by the devil himself, and they can't change that, but I can't respect them for hating me. Instead of them telling gay people to pray the gay away, they need to pray the homophobia away. Or see a therapist. Their problem is actually in their head, unlike homosexuality which can't be changed.

    Source(s): Life as a 15 uear old gay male
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I agree. You have to respect everyone even though you do not agree with them. This is a free country (supposedly) and everyone is entitled to believe, speak and live the way they choose.

  • Rose
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Homphobia=discrimination-NOT OKAY!

    So i disagree. No one should be allowed to descriminate.That's like saying, racists should respect black people, and black people should respect racists....see how ridiculous that sounds?

    And no, you are not born iwth homophobia. It is taught.

  • 9 years ago

    Homophobia is taught and learned, all hatred is. Nobody in their right mind will respect hatred directed at them, they might just as well roll over and play dead.

  • 9 years ago

    Totally agree, take off the clothes, rip the skin, flesh, leave the skeleton, we will see that all of us are just humans needing love no matter what gender you are ( / Q - Q)/ may all of us treat each other fairly and equally... THANK YOU!

  • Bobbin
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Of course. It's a matter of civility and courtesy.

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