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"I love you" phrase - is it hard to say?
He says to me "I love talking to you always and every day" "you are the best part of my day" "You make me happy every time we talk" "I m never bored with you" "I m concerned about you." "You are lovely" ..etc.
Do these sentences he says show his love to me? if so why doesnt he say to me openly "I love you" ... or he is not in love at all and being just a friend to me?
We are best friends since more than two years till then.
Thanks for guiding me.
15 Answers
- 9 years ago
Well, it could go either way. He could just be shy to express his feelings for you, or he could not have any at all. I would just decide what you feel for him yourself. If you like him as more than a friend, maybe show it through the things you do day by day. If he shows no reactions, then hes just not into that kind of relationship with you.
- 9 years ago
The word "Love" Shouldnt be thrown around like it means nothing. Like for example when a guy does something for you and the girl is just like "I love you!" Like no. I think you should only say I love you if you really mean it.
But I dont think he actually loves you he loves the things you do for him and stuff.
Goodluck I hope I helped!
- 9 years ago
For me, saying "I love you" means a lot - but it's different for different people. It sounds like he either likes you a lot or loves you - but is either too scared to say it to your face and is waiting to see if you feel the same way so he's not rejected, or he is leading you on and rudely flirting. Why not just talk to him about it?
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- 9 years ago
If he is saying that just randomly and not in a romantic moment, then its strange. Love is the strongest word ever. Using as loosely as he does suggests other things. Talk to the brotha about if it is bothering you and ask yourself do you love him as in attraction or do you love him as a friend?
- 9 years ago
The phrase, "I love you" should not be thrown around. Do not pressure anyone to throw it out there unless they truly feel that way. If he does, he will say it. Two years is not a long time.
- Anonymous9 years ago
over text or in person? haha i like the concerned one that was random(: and i think hes trying to tell you yes, he either might be waiting for hte right moment or he just cares about you alot and doesnt love you... either way hes probably a really nce guy (unless hes playing you)
- 9 years ago
Well, if you aren't actually dating, I can see where he might feel uncomfortable saying it. He definitely loves you... but until you're dating I wouldn't push or worry about the "I love you" phrase. My best guy friend and I were besties for 2 years before we started saying it on occasion. :)
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- 9 years ago
Since you guys are "friends" he doesn't want to come out and say it. Maybe it will jeopardize his relationship with you. Or you will think of him differently.He's waiting for the right time to tell you. You can probably try saying it to him jokingly "omg your so funny, I love you dude" or you can just wait for him to say it.
- 9 years ago
he does in a sence love you but its hard for him to say wither he doesnt want to push you away or he is afraid to say it. take it as a plus sign how he uses his words to you and when he is ready he will tell you he does love you
