If a married woman sleeps with at least 3 other men, can it be a mistake?

She actively made a decision to sleep with 3 other men. It was not a "mistake" but, yes, there could have been circumstances that did make her not herself. If she was suffering from alcohol or drug issues or even if she had a mental illness like bipolar or depression she could have engaged in behavior she wouldn't have otherwise done. It was still her responsibility to seek counseling and help for those issues, though. I doesn't appear that she did that. It's up to her husband to now decide whether he forgives her and if the issues she had while cheating on him are legitimate.

If a married woman sleeps with just 1 man its a mistake

No excuses its not a mistake she did this knowing she was married

And if your the husband this is unforgivable

I can accept this reason from a man that cheated on his wife because physically men are like animal they rarely act emotionally or put on certain feelings when his pecker wants other thing. Women on the other hand are emotional creature, i can accept it when it was an accident 'ONE TIME' but with 3 men. Sorry dude. I have to say its impossible she has any love for the husband not to say respect.

This can't possibly be a serious question, Right? But if it is, There is no such thing as an accident when it comes to cheating. Have you ever heard "what did you do slip and fall on it?" Seriously not an accident and I think he needs to consider divorce but get proof of the adultery.

She made a choice. She can still love her husband but much decide what to do. File divorce to show you are serious.

Oh please, stop making excuses for this woman who is behaving like a tramp. No, she does not love or respect her husband. She should be single, not making a man miserable. Any man who puts up with this is stupid.

a mistake is when you do something wrong she knows right from wrong she choose to sleep with them no mistake its called lust and well a runaroiund

um...it's not a mistake. Unless she was raped, she chose to sleep with all three men.

A man needs respect and she does not respect him.

WTF?

In some twisted and sick perverted way, she MAY love her husband. . .but I doubt it. Even so, LOVE doesn't hold a couple together, COMMITMENT DOES. And she sure in the fv(k wasn't committed to him.