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Is it weird for two guys to text spontaneously?

Do you think it's weird for two guys to text eachother 10, 15 or more times a day just to talk?

Especially if one is straight and the other is gay but they both know he's gay?

This is a repost to add:

Neither of the two guys are me. The gay guy is my friend. He likes the straight guy. I think the "straight" guy isn't actually straight. I want more opinions before I say anything to my friend.

Update:

Why is everyone so ready to snap?

I wouldn't out him even if I were 100% sure.

By weird I didn't mean there was anything wrong by it. Just that it seems a lot. Most people tell me I text a lot for a guy (which I probably do) but it's rare I'll have a 20 to 30 text conversation with the same person, in the space of an hour.

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  • 9 years ago

    Second-guessing people is dangerous and can lead to all kinds of mayhem. Even if you're right, trying to nudge to get out of the closet just because they cracked the closet door to sniff the outside can cause a lot of harm.

    And that's even if you're right about this guy not being straight.

  • 9 years ago

    It all depends the topic

  • 9 years ago

    It is obviously weird to you. Why is that?

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