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POLL: I'm a 17 year old SINGLE girl. Should I loose my VIRGINITY to one of my friends?
I originally wanted to save my virginity for when i have a serious relationship. But I havent had a relationship in awhile..and Ive been thinking about SEX alot lately. One of my best guy friends wants to take it from me.. Should I do it? Alot of people i know arent virgins and i feel left out. I also want to TRY IT BUT I DONT KNOW .
Im also afraid if i loose it to my best guy friend i will disapoint my friends and family because they all tell me to WAIT. Part of me wants to looose it part of me wants to save it.
I need your tips and opinions
every guy ive messed around with says i should loose it and all my guy friends says i should
alot of people also think im LAME for saving it and alot of guys i talk to get frustrated with me
15 Answers
- ?Lv 49 years ago
It is really up to you, if that is what you want, do it. If you think you would regret it, wait until you are in a serious relationship.
Also when guys say you should loose it, they probably mean; you should loose it ( with me )
It's not lame, i'm 17 and I still have a couple of friends who haven't even kissed a guy / girl.
- Anonymous9 years ago
your virginity is something special, you shouldn't just jump a friend to get it over with. sex is not about ''getting your rocks off'' its about love. its about a special bond between you and your boyfriend. dont listen to those who say you should just jump a friend and lose it, wait for the right boy you like to come along, and if hes the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, then you can lose your virginity
- 9 years ago
It sounds to me like you're unsure. Uncertainty means you're not 100% ready, which means you shouldn't do it.
You're only 17. A serious relationship will come along sooner or later. In the meantime, don't do things you'll regret.
- Anonymous9 years ago
I lost my virginity to my best friend..he was few years older than me.it was akward but i dont regret it.
There was no erotic feelings.We took it very slowly and he made it a non painful expirience.
You have to be careful though because after that he or you may end up have feelings for eachother.
Talk about what will happen next.
You dont wanna hurt any one.
If you do wanna lose your virginity to a friend of your is really normal.Many girls i know do it.Just make sure you are sure about it.
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- 9 years ago
Save it. If you end up sleeping with them, there could be some serious consequences like pregnancy or STDs. Im pretty sure you wouldn't want that. My mom told me that teens aren't emotionally/mentally ready for something that serious. So I would save it.
- LilyRTLv 79 years ago
this isn't something you take a poll on. either on the internet or with your friends or family. you also don't give it up because you feel "lame". that's a stupid reason to do it.
what do you want to do? do you want to have sex with this guy? or do you want to wait to have it with a guy you care about?
- Anonymous9 years ago
Lose it to a guy you like. Dont be a skank and sleep with someone you dont have feelings for. Thats a nice aspect of sex.
- ?Lv 79 years ago
No, wait for someone special that you are dating for a while. It will be so much better and you won't regret it later, there is no reason to rush into it.
- Gir-eenLv 49 years ago
no. sex is risky, so i would go on birth control first and double-up with a condom, not expecting the guy to be good with them.
it changes your relationships, so you'd start dating this guy or he won't be your friend anymore.
- Anonymous9 years ago
I wouldn't, but that is just me.
You can't please everyone, so do what you feel is right.
Of course guys are going to say yes lol why do you think that is?!
What do you think will happen when they have gotten what they want?
They'll go right on to the next one.