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Why do girls want a guy to text them first?

I have always wanted to know why. Girls help me out

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    Lv 5
    9 years ago
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    Because if we text first we think we will seem clingy or annoying. Also, because it shows that the guy actually wants to talk to the girl.

  • 9 years ago

    Because it shows that you give two. When a guy texts a girl for the first time, it shows that he actually cares, and actually wants to talk to you.. Otherwise, if the girl is always texting first, it makes us feel like you are only responding because you feel like you have to.. Just text first at least once, and your friendship/relationship will increase massively.. :)

    Source(s): I'm a woman.
  • 9 years ago

    Makes them feel wanted and special. Maybe they feel like theyre putting themselves out there initiating conversation via text. Whatever the reason, remember the female mind is a nearly impossible puzzle to guys. Save yourself some time from thinking and more confusion and just text them first haha

    Source(s): Highschool guy with too many female friends
  • 9 years ago

    manners...like you would usually let a girl walk out the door first and stuff! its an unsaid rule! a girl feels in the way and desperate if they text you first, say hi first, make the first move etc...

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  • 9 years ago

    because we know that if you text first you mean it and want to talk, but if we text first, we think that 'are they just replying because they think they have to' If you text first it shows that you are interested. We also don't want to sound needy or desperate.

  • 9 years ago

    So they know who's the easier target man...

    Back when I was younger it's always "Ladies first..." Screw that! This is total BS!

    Ladies first my ***!

    You keep saying that but when it comes it's always 'I'm not gonna text him first, he'll know I like him"

  • 9 years ago

    Because we want to know that you like us too and aren't just texting back to be nice when we text you first. and we like when guys make the 'first move'.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Because we want to know a guy likes us & we don't want to be annoying or make him think we're a stalker

  • 9 years ago

    if gals always text's 1st..guys feels like they are despo..may be thats why

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    thats a girls way of feeling sure you like her

    Source(s): me a katelyn
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