Does this count as cheating on my boyfriend?

Using toys is definitely not cheating. He might feel a little inferior or intimidated as it were, by the toy as it might cause you more pleasure than what he does so he is probably a little wary of it. Its not classed as cheating though not unless you physically do something with an actual person. It could be a blow up sex toy that looks like Vin Diesel and it still wouldn't be cheating.

You should show him that he is better than the toy, or slip in sometime that he is better than the toy in so many ways, if he asks tell him how, make things up if you must, but keep it based on the truth. Have to stay honest of course!

Guys can be really sensitive about sex toys - my ex was the same and all I had was a bullet. I guess everyone has a different opinion of what is considered cheating and personally I wouldn't say using your sex toys is cheating at all.

Maybe your boyfriend just feels like he's missing out too, and that satisfying you should be his duty and his enjoyment. I'm sure he only means well, maybe you just need to talk to him about why he considers it cheating. See if you can get to the bottom of it, if he is really against you using it then maybe you both need to meet in the middle and come to some kind of compromise :)

No it is not cheating but it is making him feel insecure and he is afraid that because you need the sex toys while he is away you might go further and find someone to satisfy you while he is away. What he doesn't know wont do any harm or make him feel useless? Good Luck

Hi

having sex with a plastic object is not cheating and it is better than being frustrated sexually.

so enjoy the toys when he is not there that is normal really.

cheating is having actual sex with some one else when in a committed relationship with someone else.

I think having sex with plastic shaped as a man is weird but hey. I'd not be alright with it either if I was him. Would you let him have a go on a sex doll of someone like Rihanna or whatever? I find the idea of sex dolls so awkward.

No he's nuts. It's just a toy, it's not like you're actually doing the guy. Maybe he just has a problem because it is a replica

First- you are not seeing another human so u aren't cheating

Second- they are your toys so you don't need his permission

Thirdly- if he is so upset about it why doesnt he DO something about it instead of having a two year old hissy fit

THAT IS ALL =D

Sex toys aren't cheating as long as you don't use them with other people. Masturbation isn't cheating at all. You don't need permission to masturbate.

Cheating is not the issue.

What you are doing upsets your boyfriend.

Would you want him to do things that upset you?

If you are not happy with that, move on.

Yes it is. Because when you do with your toy you think about someone.