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Would a guy ever date an obese girl?

I'm 21 years old and I never been in a relationship. I'm 325 pounds, 5'4, and evenly proportioned. I'm still a virgin, and was recently curious if sex would ever happen in my life. Please don't tell me to lose the weight, I'm already working on it and putting in the effort with diet and exercise. I was just wondering if a guy would go out with one. I have it in my head that they are all shallow, and that its all about the looks. I would appreciate the opinions of guys first.

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  • 9 years ago
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    I would not.

    No, that does not make me shallow.

    I want a girl with good looks and a good personality.

    There are plenty of guys who would find you good looking.

    But I personally do not find overweight to be attractive.

    Fling whatever insults and call me whatever names you want, but NOBODY can help nor can they change what they find attractive and/or unattractive.

    How many people do you know who see a person they want to talk to and think, "wow! He/she looks like they have a great personality!"?

    NOBODY

    We ALL think, "WOW!!! HE/SHE IS HOT!!!"

    Bottom line, I know that if I am dating a girl that eventually we will most likely reach the bedroom. I cannot "perform" or "get it up" if I do not find her attractive. Nor can any man force it.

  • 5 years ago

    I suppose they more often than not would She would not sound boring like most? So that is a plus . Simply announcing from what i see in high-university, and i seen it a few times. Being self-concious, thats a downer, most guys do not like that. I do not know what else to assert, but simply take a hazard, even ladies which have much less weight and all get became down, so thats all i will be able to is take a chance.

  • 9 years ago

    The right guy will love you no matter what. I know people have probably told you that before but its true. Sometimes you find the person you love later on in life.

  • 9 years ago

    A few guys like fat girls

    But most guys don't

    You'll find him

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    9 years ago

    a lot of guys have a fetish for bigger girls. do some research on google and i'm sure u can find a dating website for bigger girls to talk to guys on.

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