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Do you think it is normal for older man to think young women are sexually attractive?

For example if 35 year old man thinks that 20-25 year old women are sexually desirable. Is it normal or greepy?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Uhhh wtf definitely yes.

    Like celebrities, Jessica Alba, JLO, such. Do you think they only have young male fans? Of course not.

    And there are girls out there who prefers much older men.

    Don't put a double standard here.

    And of course, there are the cougars (older women who likes younger guys).

    It's whatever floats their boat.

    Keep an open mind.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Well, it's certainly normal.

    Whether or not it's creepy is pretty subjective. Some people think it is, some people think it isn't.

    I'd go with 'not creepy', because it's perfectly normal, natural, and expected. Or at least, I'd go with 'just as creepy as 40-something women screaming like blubbering idiots about how hot Justin Beiber is and how much they love him' creepy. Actually, scratch that last bit. That's definitely WAY more creepy than a 35 year old guy merely finding a 20-25 year old woman attractive. Like orders of magnitude more creepy (at least in my opinion), and yet, no one seems to have a problem with it (OK, so I don't really have a problem with it either, but on the scale of creepy, it's WAY creepier than a 35 year old guy finding a 25 year old woman sexually attractive).

    There are of course people who are going to claim that it's not normal, but there's overwhelming evidence for it being normal. Good luck finding 1 in 10 guys in their mid to late 30s who'd say women in their early to mid 20s aren't sexually attractive. Good luck finding 1 in 10,000 guys who'd say that and actually mean it, even (and I add the 'actually mean it bit' in there, because there are guys who are going to tell whoever they're with that they don't find younger women attractive just to reassure whoever they're with). Good luck finding 1 in 10,000 straight guys in their 80s who would say they don't find women in their 20s attractive and actually mean it. You can't randomly just make something that is, by definition, normal, not normal because you say so. Let's try it... A normal person is 8 ft tall. Did it work? Hmm... guess not.

    There are also going to be people who will claim it's not natural. Then again, they're obviously wrong based on everything we know about biology in relation to this subject, and assertions backed by nothing don't hold any weight, especially when they're contradicted by a mountain of knowledge which is supported by all the data we have on the subject. Males (regardless of age) that seek out the most fertile females for mating is a trait which was selected for. The best way to ensure that is to make said males want to have sex with said females. It's pretty obvious stuff.

  • 9 years ago

    That's normal, anyone who thinks it's creepy and thinks normal sibling age differences are huge is probably a teenager. And while being attracted to someone 10 years younger as a teenager is creepy, you're an adult so it's perfectly normal. It'd only be creepy if the girls were under 16.

  • 9 years ago

    Quite normal. Basic biology at work. The male of the species almost ALWAYS seeks out those of PRIME childbearing years. The old, powerful silverback gorilla is the one that gets all the ladies. The mature successful human male is the same way.

    Those who think it is creepy rather than part of human nature, have a lot to learn.

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  • 9 years ago

    That's normal. Older men are human too and if they see a sexy younger woman of course they will be desirable.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Its creepy - the man should be treating this woman like a younger sister, not someone to have a relationship with

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    yes, my friends dad is 80 and her mum is 45

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