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Why do girls blow hot and cold?
Im a guy btw.
So me and this colleague have a little history. Were quite close and flirty at one time but things got complicated and things cooled and we drifted apart.
Earlier this week she was drafted in to work a late shift with me where we were alone in the office. I tried to keep myself to myself and get on with my work but she would always find a way to start a conversation. At one point she stood right before me twirling her hair whilst asking me something, always laughing at my jokes. At one point she said she missed coming in to work and laughing and then as it was my bday the next day asked me how old i was going to be to which i replied i was old enough to be her father (which i am - i'm 15 years older than her). so everything seemed fine between us again.
the next day was my bday so i was off work. i got no happy bday text from her. the next day at work she passed me without a hello or even a 'how was your birthday'. total freeze.
why do girls do this? its not like i was hitting on her or anything...all i want is to be friends.
she's always known my age roughly. she just wanted the exact age. she thought it was 38 when it was in fact 39. plus she did most of the flirting.
also just because someone is 15 years older than someone else - it doesnt mean we have the answers to life! you can be a hundred and still be clueless about things.
9 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
She had the hots for you, but now she know you know and feels not comfortable around you. It is going to take a little while. Some women want older man who are mature. She is trying to keep professional now.
- ?Lv 49 years ago
You re-enforcing the fact that "you are old enough to be her father" is probably what caused her to back off from you. Stop flirting with girls 15 years younger maybe?
- 9 years ago
If u only wanna be friends then it doesn't matter. Just cause one girl does it doesn't mean all girls do it too. Plus, aren t u 15 years older...
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Men do the detailed same factor for the designated identical purpose: they are behaving regular with their emotions in that moment, which could also be different than how they felt in another circumstance. It happens...Both ask what you want to grasp, or transfer on.
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- 9 years ago
Perhaps she had a bad day? Also if your flirting don't say that your old enough to be her father. :)




